Indelicate Somatic Intimacy and Next Level Connection - Relationship Coach

Indelicate Somatic Intimacy and Next Level Connection - Relationship Coach Certified Somatic S*x & Relationship Coach: Expand your nervous system for epic s*x and relationships

You put yourself out there...You bring the effort and desire...You’re always down to talk it out...You’re an open book (...
09/06/2024

You put yourself out there...
You bring the effort and desire...
You’re always down to talk it out...
You’re an open book (at least you think you are)...

You do the trust fall, but it feels like there’s no one there to HOLD all of you.

Everyone I know is floating somewhere in that feeling.
Will I ever be met? You wonder, “Can I be understood AND wildly loved?”

There’s also this subtle, under the radar vibe of...
What if it all suddenly worked out exactly as I want it to? ….and the Nervous System shocker that is this:

There is nothing scarier than getting all that you have always wanted (or thought you did).

SOMAGICK sessions are your chance to drop in and be fully, skillfully, lovingly HELD one on one.

And if a group class and Q&A is more your speed, stay tuned for this Month’s Mystery School offerings.

September’s Theme is HELD

Because I know that’s how you want to feel.
HELD by your love, by your body, by the divine...

Come play, Angel’s 🪽

I heard from a friend today that you were trying to hold back your longing.Nice try.~~~September’s Theme here at Indelic...
09/05/2024

I heard from a friend today that you were trying to hold back your longing.

Nice try.

~~~

September’s Theme here at Indelicate’s Longing headquarters is HELD.

What does it mean to be met?
To have your effort matched? To be received fully with open arms and without waiting for the other shoe to drop….

This will be an exploration (including at least one virtual meeting) with Q&A and experiential guidance into what it feels like to be truly HELD and how to get there.

If you don’t know what that means, well honey, don’t worry!

I’ll drive and you can just come along for the ride!

Let yourself be HELD starting here! I’ll show you all about it!

Details about timing soon….

It finally happened.Two months on the road and one of you was like…”so, uh, watcha doin’? Where ya’ goin’.”They also ask...
08/28/2024

It finally happened.

Two months on the road and one of you was like…”so, uh, watcha doin’? Where ya’ goin’.”

They also asked, “any tips for regulating on a roadtrip?”

A sign of life from the void! And right as we’re wrapping up this most terribly emo month of August no less!

Thank you for asking.

Please allow me to answer, in meme form, as an ever enigmatic mysterious and peach-flavored cloud.

🪽 🧿 🪽

(TL;DR I’m making the most of the mundane by seeing much as I can while I do some necessary travel. This is also….kinda my whole thing. Maximizing my humanity—and teaching you how to do the same as the magical honey bee that you are is actually the way I help you heal chronic tension, depression, anxiety, and relationship patterns and obsessions.

SURPRISE! You get to learn to be hot AND learn the language of your body without ever having to get technical about it.)

Love is a force and embodiment flows.It’s unsurprising to me that so many people show up to somatic healing practices an...
08/15/2024

Love is a force and embodiment flows.

It’s unsurprising to me that so many people show up to somatic healing practices and relationship challenges with rigid ideas of how it’s all meant to go.

I’m never shocked at your shame or your attempts at mimicking the ‘proper’ expression of feelings, intimacy, and lust.

I know what it’s like to think there is a right way to be.

The urge to *do* and *think* still comes up for me too.

Sometimes the spooky, persistent voice of “you’re not enough,” or, “if you had only done this the RIGHT way….” creep through my consciousness like vines.

Except, now, I move with those thoughts.

I compost them into something fertile for growth instead of something that squeezes the life out of me.

The tension I know so many of us feel between “right” and “messy”, “safe” and “s*xy” is why I made one of my signature courses (one that the rare women & femmes who try it tend to watch over and over…)

❤️‍🔥 SIREN & SOVEREIGN ❤️‍🔥

It’s my hot take on a feminine mystery school that pulls no punches about holding our own light AND our own accountability in love and intimacy.

It’s self-paced and ready for you right now.

Look for it in my lnk or gimme a holler in the DMs if you’re intrigued.

Bless this mess,
Veronica

Words are spells.They can also be shortcuts.But if the short cut means bypassing the root of what is actually going on i...
08/15/2024

Words are spells.

They can also be shortcuts.

But if the short cut means bypassing the root of what is actually going on is it worth it?

For the record, self-help words and diagnoses obviously exist for a reason, but every person is different and experiences these terms differently.

Your shortcut words are not saying what you think they are saying.

Get descriptive. Give people something to work with and respond to. Offer some details!

For those on a healing journey, this also gives your BODY something to work with.

When you say a label or diagnosis, your body hears that. You deepen the identity of it.

When you describe a sensation, your physical/emotional/energy body says, “yes, thank you for acknowledging this.”

_________

This is the language and the foundation of somatic intimacy coaching and the path to the clarity and freedom you desire.

📖 Indelicate Intimacy the BOOK!
❤️‍🔥 Self-Paced Workshops (pleasure, confidence, etc)
🪂Deep Dive 90-minute intro Session

When you’re in the middle of a disagreement about space vs. connection a lot of stuff can come up.Maybe we judge each ot...
08/10/2024

When you’re in the middle of a disagreement about space vs. connection a lot of stuff can come up.

Maybe we judge each other or ourselves for our needs.

Maybe we’re even making meaning of space/connection that isn’t there or creating extra work for ourselves by assuming what the other needs or that they will be mad at us for ours.

First, notice.

“What am I making this mean?”
“What stories am I adding to this situation?”
“What unspoken expectations am I trying to meet/avoid?” “Do I actually need to be doing that?”
“How do I feel in my mind and body right now?”

Then, share. Get on the same page.

Figure out what’s actually happening here. Not what the panic in our body is telling us, not the cultural expectation or judgment.

And, ultimately, this is where you can get clear on what is ACTUALLY needed. As individuals. As a partnership.

Setting aside judgement or the fear that you’re giving/taking too much. Releasing unhelpful guilt.

And if you’re not there yet or the intensity is just too much, it’s time for help. You don’t have to do this all on your own.

Even I struggle to figure this stuff out and see it clearly in my own life without some space or helpers.

Days of confusion and pain can often slip into months or even years. (Don’t ask me how I know that 😂😅.)

If I could change anything in my own life or make any recommendation to anyone else who is struggling through a push/pull dynamic, it would be to not let any more days slip away from you just assuming that because you’re smart and loving that it will all sort itself out.

Let me help and potentially save your months or years of struggle.

Somatics + Beliefs + Energy + IntimacyInextricably linked.We can feel each other and the qualities of our thoughts and h...
08/08/2024

Somatics + Beliefs + Energy + Intimacy

Inextricably linked.

We can feel each other and the qualities of our thoughts and how we feel in our bodies.

We draw each other in and sometimes we make each other nervous.

Sensations from the body can also influence how you feel about another person (or how they feel about you).

You get a twinge in your chest or your gut.

You begin to form beliefs and stories around the twinge.

The relationship you have with your body, beliefs, and energy will shape what happens next.

Is it a relationship of trust? Deep intuition?

Fight, flight, freeze? Playful curiosity?

How do you know what to make of these sensations?

Does it mean you’re with the wrong person if something feels “off” or uncomfortable?

“I lose myself when I take in the listening role and hold space for them. Like I collapse or get so worn out!”

Or does it potentially mean that you are at war inside of yourself, all twisted up and overwhelmed by all the *stuff* you think you have to do, or take on, to be in relationship.

This is the language and the foundation of somatic intimacy coaching and the path to the clarity and freedom you desire.

📖 Indelicate Intimacy the BOOK!
❤️‍🔥 Self-Paced Workshops (pleasure, confidence, etc)
🪂Deep Dive 90-minute intro Session

Anyway.Two major themes here:1. Can you put down what you think—or what you’ve been told—a is supposed to look like? C...
07/31/2024

Anyway.

Two major themes here:

1. Can you put down what you think—or what you’ve been told—a is supposed to look like?

Can you really commit to the choice you’ve made to be where you are right now, even if it’s not a neatly tied up relationship moment?

Can you release the judgement that you don’t have it all figured out and let go of the defeated thoughts that your desires must be wrong since they haven’t happened yet?

Can you just let yourself love what you love and BE where you BE?

2. Doing lots of personal healing, reading about intimacy, or starting over does not mean that you will land somewhere easier when you try something new.

It might actually mean that you’re ready to confront some new things now.

This is where we begin.

Indelicate Intimacy The Book Has You Covered.

I’m not like other girls. I’m a Summer girl.Sticky drip to the elbow peach 🍑 kisses to you-Veronica Somatic Intimacy Coa...
07/15/2024

I’m not like other girls. I’m a Summer girl.

Sticky drip to the elbow peach 🍑 kisses to you

-Veronica
Somatic Intimacy Coach and Relationship Specialist

In-Person sessions with Healing Touch and Bodywork in Ukiah through July 24…where should I go next??

Ukiah! I opened up my WHOLE schedule for this. I'm here and doing house calls through July 24. Pitstops in Napa, Dillon ...
07/13/2024

Ukiah! I opened up my WHOLE schedule for this. I'm here and doing house calls through July 24.

Pitstops in Napa, Dillon Beach, Sebastopol...(message me to coordinate your visit!)

https://www.indelicatecoaching.com/book-online

Who knows...Maybe Sedona in early August?

Something that all of tender hearts I work with have in common:You’re so powerful you don’t even know what to do about i...
06/26/2024

Something that all of tender hearts I work with have in common:

You’re so powerful you don’t even know what to do about it.

Also, I love you.

So I wrote a book for you. 📖

“Reclaim your personal power and heal your nervous system as you conquer over-thinking and perfectionism. Rooted in radical compassion, Veronica empowers you to drop any notion that you are broken or unworthy with practical reminders that you have all that it takes to create the magic you crave in your life right now.”

Hey!Wanna try on some embodied relationship healing and coaching?The thrifty and most private option:Try my self-paced w...
06/20/2024

Hey!

Wanna try on some embodied relationship healing and coaching?

The thrifty and most private option:

Try my self-paced workshops or order my book! 📖

The bold, but noncommittal version:

Book a single virtual session (individuals and partners welcome!!). This isn’t like a typical intake appointment where you waste a bunch of time explaining yourself. You get to talk and tell me what’s up, but we’ll basically get right into it with whatever you’re seeking guidance for. You’ll also have the immediate benefit of moving some energy and connecting to your body and subconscious without having to do anything extra. I’ve got it covered.

Maybe transform your whole life and relationship if you’re feeling frisky!!

Do the 6 months. Just do it and commit to a full shift.

[[[A secret 4th thing I don’t usually advertise publicly:

The three month package, 6 sessions. No bells no whistles.

I’ve got folks in here who are working through a specific heartbreak, upleveling connection skills for a particular challenge in their relationship, other coaches seeking mentorship and better connection with their clients, etc…

They will still be hungry for more after the 6 sessions, but they will have reset their foundation and made some major shifts. A wave they can ride for a while until the next time…

There’s no public link for this, if you want it you gotta ask!]]]

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