06/07/2026
**Dead Should Never Feel Normal**
**SAFETY SUNDAY | June 7, 2026**
I’ve been struggling to put the right words to pen and paper this week.
Not because I don’t have anything to say.
Because there’s too damn much.
I’ve been struggling with where to even start, with everything going on in this trade. The accidents. The close calls. The injuries. The funerals. The families. The crews carrying weight most people will never see.
Every time I think I know where to begin, something else happens, and it feels like I’m trying to speak through grief, anger, and exhaustion all at once.
So I’m gonna start at the heart of what’s wrong.
Somewhere along the way, we’ve started letting things feel normal that should never feel normal.
And I’m telling you right now…
**Dead should never feel normal.**
But before dead starts feeling normal, accidents start feeling normal.
That’s where the numbness begins.
It starts when a man gets hurt and the machine keeps moving. It starts when somebody gets flashed, burned, shocked, crushed, dropped, scared half to death, or sent to the hospital, and the first thing people say is, “Well, at least nobody died.”
I get why people say that.
Hell, I’ve said it myself.
But that line gets dangerous if we’re not careful.
Because “at least nobody died” can slowly turn into permission to move on too damn fast. It can become the phrase we use to make ourselves feel better rather than ask the harder questions.
Why did it happen?
What’d we miss?
What’d we accept?
What’d we rush?
What’d we normalize before somebody paid the price?
A man getting hurt in this trade should still bother us. A close call should still stop us long enough to get honest. A flash should still make the room quiet. A near miss should still change the way we approach the next job.
Because once accidents start feeling routine, fatalities are already standing in the doorway.
That’s the part we don’t like to talk about.
We don’t wake up one day numb.
We practice it.
We practice it every time we shrug off something that should’ve stopped us cold. We practice it every time we call luck a safety plan. We practice it every time somebody goes home different than they showed up, and everybody acts like that’s just part of the trade.
No.
The hazard is part of the trade.
The exposure is part of the trade.
The responsibility is part of the trade.
But hurt shouldn’t feel normal.
Burned shouldn’t feel normal.
Broken shouldn’t feel normal.
Scared half to death shouldn’t feel normal.
And dead damn sure shouldn’t feel normal.
I know some people don’t like the word accident. They’ll say incident, event, occurrence, or whatever language makes the report cleaner and the meeting more comfortable.
Use whatever word you need to use on paper.
I’m talking about real life.
I’m talking about the moment something goes wrong and a human being pays for it. I’m talking about the phone call no family should ever get. I’m talking about the crew that has to stand there afterward and replay every second in their heads. I’m talking about the silence left in the lives of everyone who knew them.
That silence isn’t normal.
That pain isn’t normal.
That cost should never become normal.
And yet this trade has gotten way too damn good at absorbing pain and going right back to work.
We make the post. We say the prayer. We send condolences. We shake our heads. Then Monday comes, and too many people step right back into the same habits, the same weak job briefs, the same production pressure, the same silence, the same assumptions, and the same “we’ve always done it this way” bu****it that helped get us here.
That’s not honoring anyone.
That’s using grief as a pause button instead of a turning point.
And I’m not saying this from the cheap seats.
I’ve been in this trade long enough to know I haven’t done everything right. I’ve seen shortcuts. I’ve heard excuses. I’ve felt pressure. I’ve watched good hands make bad decisions because the job was moving fast, the storm was wearing people down, the plan wasn’t clear, or nobody wanted to be the one to speak up.
Hell, I’ve made some of those same excuses myself over the years.
But I know this…
When accidents start feeling normal, men stop fighting hard enough to prevent them.
They start accepting things they used to question. They start rushing conversations that should’ve happened before the work ever started. They start assuming someone else checked. They start trusting silence. They start letting fatigue, pride, pressure, and habit make decisions that should’ve been made with a clear head and a serious respect for what can go wrong.
And silence will get people killed.
So to **EVERYONE** reading this, listen close.
Don’t let this trade beat the sensitivity out of you.
Don’t let anybody convince you that being bothered by accidents means you’re weak. Don’t let the jokes, the pride, the pressure, or the old “that’s just linework” mentality numb you to the cost of this work.
If something feels wrong, say it.
If you don’t understand, ask.
If the plan doesn’t make sense, stop the damn job.
That doesn’t make you soft.
That means you still understand what’s at stake.
To the experienced hands, foremen, general foremen, superintendents, safety professionals, owners, and anybody else carrying influence in this trade…
We’ve got to quit acting like numbness is strength.
It’s not.
Strength is giving a damn after you’ve seen too much. Strength is slowing the job down when everybody else wants to hurry. Strength is saying the uncomfortable thing before somebody gets hurt. Strength is looking at a young hand and saying, “Not like that. Not today. Not on my watch.”
We owe that to the dead.
We owe that to the injured.
We owe that to the families sitting beside hospital beds.
We owe that to the crews carrying memories they don’t talk about.
We owe that to the apprentices who are still learning what normal is supposed to look like.
And we owe it to every person who still believes we’re gonna do everything in our power to bring their person home.
Because that’s the promise, whether we say it out loud or not.
When we leave the yard, sign the tailboard, put our gloves on, step into the bucket, climb the pole, walk into the right-of-way, drive through the night, work storm, or take responsibility for the person beside us…
The promise is simple.
**Bring them home.**
Not most of them.
Not just alive.
Not broken.
Not burned.
Not changed forever.
Bring them home.
And when we fail to do that, it better still hurt enough to make us change.
Because accidents should never feel normal.
Injuries should never feel normal.
Close calls should never feel normal.
And dead should never feel normal.
Not in this trade.
Not on our crews.
Not on our watch.
**Bring Them Home…**
~Kevin
**Lineman Bull$hit™ Academy**
**Together We Rise.**
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