HMC Coaching - Helping Men Change

Men’s Retreat Invitation
First, I want to give thanks and deep gratitude to my daughter, Tara, who shared this event while I was deep in the jungles of Peru, expanding my own healing work.

Now that I’m back, I’m putting this out personally—because this retreat means a lot to me.

This isn’t just a weekend getaway. It’s the embodiment of a vision I’ve carried for over seven years—ever since I began doing men’s work and diving into my own growth. Helping men connect with themselves and each other has become one of my deepest passions. Now, that vision is coming to life—at the river, with good men, doing the real work together.

This retreat is being co-facilitated by myself, Jimmie, and Tony—three men committed to walking this path and creating a space where others can do the same.

Dates: July 25–27
Location: Brinnon, WA (on the beautiful Duckabush River)
Arrive evening of the 25th
Full day experience on the 26th
Depart by noon on the 27th

Cost: $395 – includes camping, meals, and all workshops
Sliding scale available – No man will be turned away due to money

This retreat is for men who are ready to:
• Build real brotherhood
• Ground themselves through cold plunges
• Learn tools to use in real-life challenges
• Be heard without judgment
• Feel connected and alive again

Whether you’re in a hard season—or just ready to connect with like-minded men—this space is for you.

If you know a man who could use this, please forward or share this post with him. Most of us know someone who’s been carrying it all alone.

Let’s come together.
Let’s reconnect to what matters.
Let’s do the work—together.

—John Owensby
Helping Men Change

Are You Tired of Attracting the Wrong Energy?
I work with men and women who are tired of repeating the same patterns—attracting the wrong partners, feeling unseen, unheard, or like they’ve lost themselves in the relationship.

Maybe you feel resentful, disconnected, emotionally shut down, or like you're always the one trying to make it work.

You might be questioning your relationship—or wondering if you’ll ever find one that feels aligned. Chances are, you’re still carrying emotional baggage, and it keeps showing up in your present.

That’s where the work begins.

This isn’t about fixing anyone. It’s about letting go of what’s holding you back and waking up to the energy you're carrying.

For men, it means stepping into grounded masculine leadership.

For women, it means softening into true feminine essence.

For both—it means learning to lead with clarity, confidence, and devotion.

If this resonates , it’s time to lean in.
Because your relationship—with yourself, and with others—is everything.

—John Owensby
Relationship Success

“It always amazes me how naturally men who share similar paths, yet barely know each other, can deeply connect and understand each other. Just last night, I was part of a men's group where we dived into the essence of healthy masculine leadership in relationships. True leadership isn't about control or issuing directives. It’s about guiding as one might in a dance, providing direction and creating a space for your partner to thrive and shine.
Many of us discovered that moving beyond the reactive patterns of our childhood not only enhances our ability to lead but also transforms our homes into sanctuaries of safety and support. Imagine what it could be like to embody this mature masculine energy effortlessly."

T or F: A man should be “able” to be soft and sensitive in his relationship? 👀

Heading out on another amazing 2 week journey.

When someone projects their pain onto you, how do you respond? Do you absorb it and lower your vibration to match theirs? I invite you to stay rooted in your light and not allow other people's pain to become your own. It's not yours to carry.

I felt called to reach out and tell you that you are doing fantastic. Even if you keep doubting yourself, this is your reminder that you are a divine soul with magic flowing through you

I invite you to let go of people who don't value your presence or make you feel loved. Stop trying to force them to see your worth and appreciate you. This is one of the most challenging things you will experience in your life but will help you learn to value YOURSELF.