06/13/2023
Fellow 3’s, I’m looking at you 👀😂
3’s are skilled at what I call “chameleoning.” We can quickly perceive what others view as “successful” then shape shift into whatever that is, even if that means abandoning or hiding who we truly are.
In many ways, it’s an asset. It makes us likable, good communicators, strong performers, and effective at what we put our minds to.
The problem is, if we’re constantly shape shifting, it’s a slippery slope. We can quickly get out of touch with who we really are, drop our morals and values, and become someone unrecognizable - becoming afraid that who we truly are isn’t good enough.
Hello imposter syndrome. Hello workaholism. Hello hyper competitiveness.
3’s, remember that you don’t need everyone to like you. Get to know and like who you are, and let that be enough!
You don’t have to stop chasing your dreams or appreciating the spotlight. You just have to make sure you’re chasing dreams you *actually want to achieve* and not defining your self worth based on your performance.
I know that’s easier said than done, but I know you can do it. Here’s your reminder to try ❤️
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