Enamory

Ketam*ne and M🫶🏼MA can both support deep relational healing, but they often work differently in couple therapy.

Ketam*ne is great for increasing flexibility and perspective-taking and breaking us out of stuck patterns very quickly in order to do relational work during integration. M🫶🏼MA tends to increase safety, trust, and empathy, helping partners stay connected during difficult conversations about trust violations and betrayal.

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We’re so excited to announce the winners of our Couples’ KAP Training giveaway 🎉

✨ Renee Burwell 
✨ Tania Beaudoin .lcsw 
✨ Sophie Whitney

Thank you to everyone who shared and supports the future of psychedelic-assisted couple therapy.
We can’t wait to have these incredible therapists join us for our July training ❤️

This training includes assessment and case formulation for couples, preparation, dosing, and integration.The training also includes real clinical case examples, experiential role plays, consultation, and connection with a growing community of therapists dedicated to relational healing.

Trust is not only about honesty. 🌙 It is also about emotional safety.

Can your partner share something vulnerable and trust that they will not be attacked, dismissed, or shut down? 🤍

Often, the most healing response is simple:
“That makes sense.”
“Can you tell me more?”

Understanding first. Responding second. 🌿

Not everything that hurts is betrayal. 🌙

Sometimes the deeper question is:
What was I expecting in that moment?
Was that expectation clear?
And what happened instead? 🤍

Betrayal happens when expecations are communicated, acknowledged and agreed upon, and then broken.

An open and honest conversation can begin with:
“When this happened, I expected this, and then experienced something different.” 🌿

That kind of language can help couples move from confusion and reactivity toward understanding.

First, have a conversation with your partner. This video highlights some examples of what emotional betrayal might be in a relationship, but the definition depends on the agreements of your relationship.

Betrayal is not only physical. 💔

Emotional betrayal can be just as painful because it involves where your energy, intimacy, and attention are going. 🌙

Sometimes the question is not
“Did something physical happen?”
but
“Am I sharing parts of myself with someone else that I’m no longer sharing with my partner?” 🤍

If a line has been crossed, repair starts with honesty, transparency, and intentionally turning back toward the relationship. 🌿

When trust is broken over and over, it stops being a mistake and starts becoming a pattern. 💔

At some point, it is not about what they say they intend.

It is about what their behavior keeps showing you. 🌙

If you stay, ask yourself:
Am I seeing change or only hearing apologies?
What do I need in order to feel safe here?
What is the reality I am in? Not what I hope for. 🤍

Trust is not built in one big moment.
It is built in small moments, over and over. 🌙

In the ways we respond.
In whether we follow through.
In whether our partner feels understood. 🤍

Trust grows when people turn toward each other with consistency, care and emotional attunement. 🌿