08/17/2026
PARENTS THE LONGER YOU WAIT
and you don't hold your child's schools accountable gives these guys more time to dictate what's best for your child's physical mental and emotional health.
Don’t be afraid to speak out for your kids because they are voiceless and rely on you.
Parents — Know Your Rights
You do not have to accept every lesson, survey, or program the school offers.
Here’s what you can do:
✅ Opt out of any content that does not align with your family’s values or beliefs.
You have the right to review materials and formally opt your child out.
✅ Opt out of surveys and questionnaires.
Many are designed to collect personal information about your child’s beliefs, mental health, family life, or identity. You can refuse participation.
✅ Request to preview all surveys, social-emotional lessons, and sensitive materials before they are given to your child.
✅ Put everything in writing.
Send a clear opt-out notice and keep a copy for your records.
✅ Stay informed and connected.
Talk with other parents, attend school board meetings, and share information.
Your child’s education and values start at home. You have the right — and the responsibility — to protect both.
Lilit is a teacher at Fairfax county, Virginia. She decided to take...