06/03/2021
Mental Fitness
Exercising; walking, running, riding a bike, going to the gym, doing sports, we may not want to do it at times and it can feel hard and unrewarding but we have no doubts about the benefits it has on our physical and mental health, especially over time.
Doing a physical activity helps us to keep fit, strengthens our muscles, and gives us more energy. It also helps to clear our heads, produces powerful positive emotions, and generates feelings of accomplishment, confidence, and a sense of connection with ourselves and others.
If the positive effects of physical fitness are a given, how about mental fitness? Is it a practice you are familiar with or participate in? Do you know of or believe in the benefits of mental fitness?
We have a cultural tendency to see anything concerning the mind and the care of it to do with therapy and then more often than not as something negative or related to mental illness.
As a coach but also as a person who has greatly benefited from therapy, I am an advocate of it and look forward to a day when it is as normal to seek professional help and guidance to navigate emotional trauma and the pressures of everyday life as it is to go for a massage to release physical tension or see a Chiropractor, Osteopath or Physiotherapist to support physical injury recovery.
While, mental fitness is a central part of therapy it is not exclusive to it and is in itself a general term used to describe exercises, practices, and activities primarily performed to develop effective mental tools and mindsets to deal with the challenges we face in life and the way we think about them and to support and enhance our experience of happiness, connection, and fulfillment.
In Coaching and Cognitive Psychology there is a simple equation for how we live our lives; what we think/believe => how we feel => how we react/respond => how we behave. Our beliefs are the combined result of our lives, what we have been taught, what we have read, seen, and heard, and what we have experienced. The result is a mostly unconscious set of rules and a roadmap for navigating our lives steered by our rational minds.
As a result, we mostly identify who we are with how we think and what we believe. Mental fitness helps us to separate the two and is designed to build the muscles of the mind that often go underutilised or unused and opens up regions of the brain that offer different ways of thinking about ourselves and our circumstances and alternative approaches to problem-solving and to managing anxiety, stress and the thoughts that wake us up in the middle of the night.
In my next post, I’ll look at how centuries-old practices have been combined with more recent breakthroughs in Psychology and Neuroscience to develop mental fitness exercises and frameworks used by top sportspeople, athletes, corporations, businesses, entrepreneurs, and everyday people alike.
In the meantime, here is a question to ponder;
When I say meditation or mindfulness to you, what is your reaction, what are the thoughts that immediately come to mind?
Be honest with yourself, there is no judgment here, only space for getting better acquainted with the way we think and the impact it has on us.
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