10/16/2024
Someone showing up as a SAFE person is never too much to ask. If someone asked me what my biggest mistake I ever made in my relationships was, it would be tolerating behavior that made me feel anxious, insecure, and constantly stressed. Notice I did not say, angry, sad, or even hurt. Because other humans will sometimes do or say things to make us angry, sad, and hurt. Even the ones that love us. And we also might make the person we love angry, sad or hurt. But that does not mean we feel unsafe. Those feelings only lead to activation of our nervous systems when there is no repair or accountability. 🩷