08/28/2026
Today was my last ride with Arlo before he goes home. It has been a true pleasure being apart of his journey and as I rode him this morning I reflected on all the things he has taught and refined in me over these past few months. He came to me with an overwhelming anxiety that causes him to worry even in the moments he doesn’t need to. I helped him build confidence, body control, and learn to better process his emotions rather than overthink his way through them and not be able to get past his reactive mindset. He’s taught me that confidence is key even when you have to carry it for the both of you - you at least have to fake it for both of your sakes. Softness starts in the body and builds into the face because you may have a soft rein but that doesn’t mean you have control of their mind and body placement. That sometimes the best answer is to pause, regroup and try again while other times that may make things worse and it’s best to stay busy or push through. Finding the difference between those isn’t always easy. Though he’s not perfect and I think will always be a bit of his anxiety, goofy, lovable self, he has surely improved from when he got here. I am so proud of you, Mr. Arlo. Now be good for your mom in your future adventures!