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09/07/2026

You can be completely blindsided by how much the first breakup after divorce f***s you up.

Especially when the relationship was nowhere near as long as your marriage.

Because logically, it makes no sense.

You survived the divorce.

You rebuilt your life.

You learned how to be alone.

Then you met him.

And suddenly you were wanted again.

Excited again.

Having s*x and chemistry and imagining a future again.

Maybe you felt more like yourself with him than you had in years.

So when it ended, you didn’t just lose a man you’d been dating for a few months.

You lost what being with him had started to mean.

The future you thought you were finally getting.

The proof that there really was something better waiting for you after your marriage.

The version of yourself you thought you’d gotten back.

That’s why comparing the length of this relationship to the length of your marriage will never explain the size of the heartbreak.

And it’s exactly what I unpack inside Why This Breakup Hurts Worse Than Your Divorce.

For Labor Day, I’m also giving you Breakup Behavior Breakdown: Making Sense of His Mixed Signals completely FREE when you get it.

So you can understand why this breakup hit you so fu***ng hard and finally make sense of the behavior that’s kept you analyzing him months later.

Comment or DM HEARTBREAK and I’ll send you the special link.

Ends tomorrow at 12 PM EST.

You can understand why he pulled away and still be left wondering why the hell you can’t get over him.Because those are ...
09/07/2026

You can understand why he pulled away and still be left wondering why the hell you can’t get over him.

Because those are actually 2 different questions.

After my first big breakup after divorce, I spent an embarrassing amount of time trying to answer the first one.

Why did he pursue me so hard if he wasn’t ready?

How could someone talk about a future with me and then suddenly need space?

Which version of him was real?

I thought if I could finally make his behavior make sense, something in me would settle.

But even when I had explanations, I still had the heartbreak.

Because I wasn’t only trying to understand what happened with him.

I needed to understand what that relationship had come to mean to me.

It was love after divorce.

Being wanted again.

Feeling alive again.

Proof that there really could be something better after my marriage.

A whole future I had started to believe in.

So of course losing it hit differently.

And this is exactly why I put 2 of my breakup resources together for Labor Day.

When you get Why This Breakup Hurts Worse Than Your Divorce, you’ll also get Breakup Behavior Breakdown: Making Sense of His Mixed Signals completely FREE.

One helps you understand what happened with him.

The other helps you understand why losing him became so fu***ng hard to let go of.

Comment or DM HEARTBREAK and I’ll send you the special link.

Ends tomorrow at 12 PM EST.

You can know exactly how the relationship ended and still feel like you have no fu***ng idea what happened.Because the e...
09/06/2026

You can know exactly how the relationship ended and still feel like you have no fu***ng idea what happened.

Because the ending wasn’t the confusing part.

It was trying to understand how you got from the man who pursued you, made the plans, talked about your future and seemed completely sure about you…

to the man who suddenly needed space, didn’t know what he wanted, or disappeared altogether.

So you keep going back.

Not necessarily because you want him back.

Because your brain is still trying to make the beginning and the ending belong to the same story.

You reread texts.

Replay conversations.

Remember everything he said.

Try to pinpoint the exact moment something changed.

And eventually, trying to get over him becomes trying to solve him.

That’s why for Labor Day I decided to put 2 of my breakup resources together.

When you get Why This Breakup Hurts Worse Than Your Divorce, you’ll also get Breakup Behavior Breakdown: Making Sense of His Mixed Signals absolutely FREE.

One helps you understand why this breakup became so fu***ng hard for YOU to let go of.

The other helps you make sense of what the f**k was happening with HIM.

Comment or DM HEARTBREAK and I’ll send you the special link.

Ends Tuesday at 12 PM EST.

09/06/2026

There’s a reason this breakup can leave you questioning your own fu***ng reality.

Because he probably didn’t feel unavailable in the beginning.

He pursued you.

Opened up to you.

Made you feel like what was happening between you was different.

Maybe he was the first man after your divorce who made you think, Oh. So THIS is what it can feel like.

And then something shifted.

The closer you got, the further away he seemed to go.

But not completely.

Because just when you started accepting that maybe he couldn’t give you what you wanted, he’d come back.

A text.

An “I miss you.”

A vulnerable conversation.

A few incredible days where you thought, There he is. THAT’S the man I fell for.

And that’s what can make this kind of heartbreak so fu***ng difficult to get over.

You’re not trying to make sense of one version of him.

You’re trying to reconcile 2 completely different experiences of the same man.

The one who pursued you, opened up and made you believe this could actually become something.

And the one who pulled away, became inconsistent or couldn’t give you the relationship his earlier behavior made you believe was coming.

Of course your brain wants an explanation for how both could be true.

And when this is the first man you really fell for after divorce?

There’s often even more wrapped up in the answer.

For Labor Day, when you get Why This Breakup Hurts Worse Than Your Divorce, I’m giving you Breakup Behavior Breakdown: Making Sense of His Mixed Signals absolutely FREE.

One helps you understand why losing him got such a grip on you.

The other helps you make sense of the behavior that has kept you trying to figure him out.

Comment or DM HEARTBREAK and I’ll send you the special link.

Ends Tuesday at 12 PM EST.

There’s a special kind of mental gymnastics that happens when his words and his behavior never quite matched.Because you...
09/06/2026

There’s a special kind of mental gymnastics that happens when his words and his behavior never quite matched.

Because your brain wants the story to make sense.

If he didn’t want a relationship, why did he pursue you like that?

If he didn’t see a future, why did he talk about one?

If he was done, why did he keep coming back?

And if what you had was real, how the f**k did he walk away from it?

So you keep looking for the missing piece.

The conversation you misunderstood. The attachment style that explains it. The childhood wound that makes his behavior logical. The one answer that will finally let your brain put the file away.

Except you can understand every single reason a man behaved the way he did and still be heartbroken.

Because making sense of him only answers half the question.

You also need to understand why this particular relationship became so hard for you to release.

Especially when you already survived the end of a marriage.

That’s why, for Labor Day, I’m putting 2 of my breakup resources together.

When you get Why This Breakup Hurts Worse Than Your Divorce, you’ll also get Breakup Behavior Breakdown: Making Sense of His Mixed Signals absolutely free.

One helps you understand why this breakup got such a grip on you.

The other helps you finally make sense of the behavior you’ve been driving yourself crazy trying to understand.

Comment or DM HEARTBREAK and I’ll send you the special link.

Ends Tuesday at 12 PM EST.

09/05/2026

Here ↓

1️⃣ It’s always this or something better.

Maybe he was the best s*x you’ve ever had. The strongest chemistry. The most fun. The first person who made you feel truly alive again after your marriage.

That doesn’t make him your only access to any of it.

2️⃣ Everything is always working out for me, even when it feels like it isn’t.

You don’t have to understand how this ending could possibly be working in your favor while you’re fu***ng devastated by it.

You just have to leave room for the possibility that you can’t see the whole story yet.

3️⃣ What’s meant for me doesn’t require me to abandon myself to keep it.

You don’t have to chase it, convince it, decode it, lower your standards for it or keep making yourself OK with things that aren’t actually OK with you.

4️⃣ He didn’t show me what I lost. He showed me what’s available.

The chemistry. The s*x. The connection. Feeling desired. Laughing your ass off. Being excited about love again.

He doesn’t own any of those experiences.

5️⃣ If it were meant to continue, it would have.

You can wish it had ended differently without spending another 6 months trying to solve exactly why it didn’t.

And if you’re still having a really fu***ng hard time letting go of the first man who broke your heart after divorce, I made something specifically for this breakup.

For Labor Day, when you get Why This Breakup Hurts Worse Than Your Divorce, you’ll also get Breakup Behavior Breakdown: Making Sense of His Mixed Signals FREE.

DM or Comment “HEARTBREAK” and I’ll send you the special link.

Ends Tuesday at 12 PM EST.

You can spend months trying to get over someone while still giving him hours of your attention every week.Not by talking...
09/05/2026

You can spend months trying to get over someone while still giving him hours of your attention every week.

Not by talking to him.

By trying to figure him the f**k out.

Reading about avoidant attachment.

Going back through old texts with information you didn’t have when he sent them.

Watching tarot readings that sound suspiciously like they were made specifically for your relationship.

Explaining his behavior through his childhood, his divorce, his ex, his fear of intimacy.

Having another conversation with him because maybe this time he’ll finally say the thing that makes everything make sense.

It all feels like you’re looking for closure.

But every question still has him at the center of it.

And when this was the first man you really fell for after your divorce, there can be SO much more wrapped up in needing to understand what happened than you realize.

Which is exactly why I decided to put these 2 together for Labor Day.

When you get Why This Breakup Hurts Worse Than Your Divorce, you’ll also get Breakup Behavior Breakdown: Making Sense of His Mixed Signals absolutely free.

One helps you make sense of why this breakup has been so fu***ng hard to let go of.

The other helps you make sense of the man you’ve been trying so hard to figure out.

DM or Comment HEARTBREAK and I’ll send you the link (no coupon code required)

Offer ends Tuesday at 12 PM EST.

Sometimes the breakup that wrecks you the most isn’t the longest relationship.It’s the one you attached the most meaning...
09/05/2026

Sometimes the breakup that wrecks you the most isn’t the longest relationship.

It’s the one you attached the most meaning to.

The one that came after years of being disappointed in your marriage.

The one that made you think, “Oh. So THIS is what love can feel like.”

The one that made you start picturing what came next.

So when it ended, you weren’t just trying to get over him.

You were trying to figure out what the hell to do with everything you thought that relationship meant.

And that’s exactly why this kind of breakup can hit so fu***ng hard.

If that’s where you are right now, I made something for this.

Why This Breakup Hurts Worse Than Your Divorce breaks down why you got so attached, what you’re actually grieving, and why your brain keeps dragging you back to him.

DM or Comment HEARTBREAK and I’ll send you the details.

09/04/2026

The dating pool didn’t suddenly get worse after divorce.

You just got a lot better at seeing what you used to explain away.

The inconsistency.

The vague answers about what he wants.

The chemistry that’s REALLY good even though the relationship itself is giving you absolutely nothing.

The guy who likes you just enough to keep you around, but not enough to actually choose you.

The version of you who used to spend 3 months trying to figure out what something meant can recognize it in 3 dates now.

And THAT is why dating can feel so much harder after you’ve done a lot of work on yourself.

Your options get smaller.

Because you’re not looking for someone you can convince yourself to like.

You’re not looking for someone with enough potential.

You’re not looking for someone you can make work if you’re patient enough, understanding enough, low-maintenance enough, or willing to ignore what you already know.

You want the person who actually works for you.

So yeah.

Maybe 99% of the dating pool IS p*e.

You don’t need the 99%.

You need to trust yourself enough to recognize the 1% when you see it.

And more importantly, trust yourself enough to walk away from the 99% when you do.

That’s a huge part of what I teach and we practice inside Anchored.

Because knowing what you want is one thing.

Trusting yourself enough to choose accordingly when you actually like someone?

Whole different ballgame.

DM or comment ANCHORED and I’ll send you the details.

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