Life and Marriage

Life and Marriage Certified Life Coach specializing in Marriage Coaching helping people communicate. People who want to develop themselves and reach goals in all areas of life.

My name is Char Ashby, I am a virtual/online accredited Life Coach, specializing in marriages. I live in Philadelphia PA in the United States but my practice scans the globes through virtual sessions. I love working with people who are seeking relationship support, personal growth, building businesses, or changing careers. My clients have gone from considering divorce to staying married in loving, honoring, and respectful relationships. Others have traded feelings of guilt for motivation and encouragement. My clients grow in ways they did not think were possible because I create a safe, non-judgmental space for growth and change. In every session you leave with results. For 40 years I have worked serving people in some of the largest and most productive initiatives in the customer service industry as well as churches, to most recently the USPS. My ministerial experience performing weddings, funerals, and counseling couples through my ministry (This is not clinical counseling). My experience helps me to hear your concerns to ask those intuitive questions that will help you see change and get results. I earned a BA in organizational leadership, diplomas, and certificates in pastoral studies, building strong marriages, and group facilitation. I am a graduate of CoachU and am currently enrolled in the Center for Coaching Mastery. I was accredited through the International Coaching Federation in 2022 as a Life Coach. Listen, I could go on and on about my experiences, accomplishments, and life-long learning but now I am here to support you. If you know that you want to see growth and the opportunity to live your best life, you are in a good place. Now it's time to book an appointment and get on the road to living and loving the life you desire.

Looking to build stronger, more fulfilling relationships? Create how you show up in effective communication, emotional a...
05/02/2026

Looking to build stronger, more fulfilling relationships? Create how you show up in effective communication, emotional awareness, and transform your connections. Discover valuable resources inside of you working with a life coach at C.A. Life and Marriage Coaching. Designed your journey toward healthier relationships and personal growth. Visit your website today and take the next step toward the life and relationship you've always wanted.

Ready to transform your personal and relationship journey? Discover the expert guidance and valuable resources available...
05/01/2026

Ready to transform your personal and relationship journey? Discover the expert guidance and valuable resources available at Life and Marriage Coach. Our website is designed to support your path toward growth, connection, and lasting change through intentional communication and emotional awareness. Whether you're focusing on strengthening bonds or creating healthier relationships, we're here to empower you every step of the way. Visit your website today and take the next step toward a more fulfilling life.

Ready to enhance your personal growth and strengthen your relationships? Discover the expert guidance and valuable resou...
05/01/2026

Ready to enhance your personal growth and strengthen your relationships? Discover the expert guidance and valuable resources available at Life and Marriage Coach. Our website is designed to support your journey with practical tools focused on communication, emotional awareness, and lasting change. Whether you're an individual or part of a couple, we're here to empower you every step of the way. Visit your website today and take the first step toward a more fulfilling life.

Looking to improve your relationships and personal growth? Learn how intentional communication and emotional awareness c...
05/01/2026

Looking to improve your relationships and personal growth? Learn how intentional communication and emotional awareness can transform your connections. Discover valuable strategies and expert guidance available at Life and Marriage Coach, designed to support your journey toward stronger, healthier relationships. Explore resources to help you build commitment, understanding, and lasting change. Visit your website today and take the next step toward a more fulfilling life.

Headline: Is your "fast-forward" button breaking your foundation? 🛑✨Caption:Whether you are rebuilding your life after a...
03/21/2026

Headline: Is your "fast-forward" button breaking your foundation? 🛑✨
Caption:
Whether you are rebuilding your life after a setback, mastering a stage in public speaking, or starting a new relationship, one rule remains the same: The foundation determines the height. 🏗️
In my latest blog, "The Wait or the Weight?", we dive into why the "slow burn" is a strategic move for your future—not just an old-fashioned rule.
💡 Why it matters for YOUR growth:
1️⃣ Confidence: Waiting is an act of self-respect. It says your future is worth the wait.
2️⃣ Rebuilding: It ensures your new chapter isn’t built on a "Hormone Blindfold" but on real character.
3️⃣ Success: Mastering delayed gratification in dating builds the discipline you need for every other area of your life.
Swipe to see the roadmap! 📍 Read the full data-driven guide at the link in my bio. 🔗

Ever feel like modern dating is just one big game of "Pop the Balloon"? 🎈 We’ve all seen the viral clips where rejection...
03/20/2026

Ever feel like modern dating is just one big game of "Pop the Balloon"? 🎈 We’ve all seen the viral clips where rejection happens in a heartbeat based on looks alone. But real love? It doesn't "pop"—it builds. Check out my latest blog post where I dive into what actually makes a relationship last.
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We often romanticize chemistry, but a lasting life together requires a different kind of "match."In her latest insight, ...
03/20/2026

We often romanticize chemistry, but a lasting life together requires a different kind of "match."
In her latest insight, Charmaine Ashby reminds us that while passion is the spark, alignment is the engine.
Choosing a mate isn’t just about how they make you feel; it’s about where you are going together. Ask yourself:
Do your values align?
Do you see the future through the same lens?
Are you building with them, or just beside them?
Marry the person who feels like a partner, not just a passion.
Read more here:
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Is your relationship surviving or thriving? 🌿We often spend more time planning our next vacation than we do checking in ...
03/08/2026

Is your relationship surviving or thriving? 🌿
We often spend more time planning our next vacation than we do checking in on the heart of our home—our marriage. Communication isn't just about talking; it’s about being heard and understood.
If you’ve felt like you’re stuck in the same cycle of conflict, repeating the same arguments with no resolution, it might be time for a new perspective. You deserve a relationship built on trust, intimacy, and true partnership.
Let’s break the cycle together.
✨ Click the link in my bio or visit charmaineashby.com to book your discovery call and start your next season with clarity.

Everybody Can’t Be Helped: Why Transformation Requires WillingnessYesterday I listened to a message from Bishop Keith W....
03/02/2026

Everybody Can’t Be Helped: Why Transformation Requires Willingness

Yesterday I listened to a message from Bishop Keith W. Reed, Sr. that deeply challenged me.

Then in my daily Bible reading, I found myself in Romans 15 — a chapter that reminds us to bear one another’s burdens and not live to please ourselves.

And I had to pause.

Because if you isolate Romans 15, you might conclude that you are responsible for carrying everyone.

But if you read the whole counsel of Scripture, you see something equally clear:

Discernment matters.

There are people Scripture tells us to withdraw from.
There are behaviors Scripture tells us to avoid.
There are patterns Scripture warns us not to enable.

So which is it?

Are we to bear burdens?

Or are we to turn away?

The answer is maturity.

The Coaching Perspective: Not Everyone Wants Transformation

From a coaching standpoint, here is what stands out:

Not everyone wants transformation.

And transformation cannot happen without willingness.

Coaching is not about rescuing.
It is not about carrying.
It is not about fixing.

Coaching is about:

Awareness

Ownership

Responsibility

Forward movement

You can partner with someone who is committed to growth.
You can guide someone who is teachable.
You can challenge someone who is accountable.

But you cannot transform someone who resists responsibility.

And that distinction changes everything.

When Compassion Becomes Misaligned

There is a difference between:

Supporting growth
— and subsidizing dysfunction.

Extending grace
— and enabling irresponsibility.

Partnering in development
— and over-functioning for someone who refuses ownership.

Even Jesus did not entrust Himself to everyone (John 2:24).

That’s powerful.

Boundaries are not a lack of love.
They are a form of stewardship.

If engagement begins to:

Drain your clarity

Disrupt your primary assignment

Blur healthy boundaries

Or require you to carry what belongs to someone else

It is no longer healthy partnership.

It is misalignment.

A Leadership Boundary

So let me say this clearly.

If you ask me for support, I am going to ask you questions.

I am going to ask:

What is your plan?

What are you committed to changing?

What have you done with the resources you’ve already had?

Are you ready for accountability?

If I have the capacity, I will engage.

But I am not going to release my time, energy, influence, or resources without clarity, responsibility, and commitment on your part.

Because growth only happens where ownership is embraced.

Final Thought

Everybody cannot be helped — because transformation requires willingness.

Compassion requires wisdom.
Leadership requires boundaries.
Coaching requires readiness.
Faith requires discernment.

And sometimes the most loving thing you can do is step back and allow consequences to teach what conversation could.
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A powerful story unfolds about a woman who found herself loving someone trapped in addiction. Explore the complexities o...
02/19/2026

A powerful story unfolds about a woman who found herself loving someone trapped in addiction. Explore the complexities of relationships and the journey toward healing in my latest blog post.

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