08/08/2020
Part of becoming your best Self involves dealing with the barriers blocking your progress. During the course of the pandemic, I've noticed a lot of assimilation and little adaptation. Particularly on social media, but elsewhere, I've noticed that people seem to fall into these distinct categories of beliefs. For instance, there are those who deny the pandemic regardless of the obvious evidence. They are very good at assimilating all information into their worldviews, intellectualizing ever bit of information contradicting their chosen beliefs.
They aren't the only ones. Many among those who accept the pandemic fully tend to over-exaggerate it's potency, raising the value of any one confirmed case as an indication that we are all doomed to a tragic end unless we shelter in place. The folks, fail to realize that many people cannot shelter in place because of a lack of income. Further, many on this side see the pandemic as Trump's fault. It's almost as if when he's finally defeated, the pandemic will end. Both of these sides are flawed, although each has its truths.
Then there are the confusing people like me. I read the information and the scientific literature. I base all of my comments on the data as they present themselves. Thus, one day I may feel optimistic, the next pessimistic. With time, though, I have come to understand the disease quite well. Although not a biologist, I've read all types of studies, from the microbiological to the epidemiological. So, I get to see all the twists that reality brings. I've experienced the highs of being right in my beliefs and the lows of being wrong. Over time though, my understanding has increased. Now, I have this fluid sense of peace when it comes to the pandemic. Folks, there's not much we can do except wear masks, limit face to face contact, and enjoy the ride.
My approach is psychoadaptation. We formulate worldviews but they must be fluid. Postulates will change as new information comes. This fluidity is a strength that will one day result in a worldview that, while malleable is quite stable. Once we've seen a lot and adapted a lot, there are fewer adaptations to make and certainly less disequilibrium. While I still mourn certain lost postulates, that mourning is quite infrequent. Keep in mind, though, the more you achieve adaptation, the more perplexing you will be to others.