Hikmah Life Coaching

09/06/2026

Tip 10: Create Daily One-on-One Time

Ten intentional minutes can prevent hours of attention-seeking behavior.
Example:
After dinner, put your phone away and let your child choose the activity. Do something they enjoy without any strings attached.
Love is shown through presence.

08/31/2026

Tip 9: Focus on the Child, Not the Mistake

Correct behavior without attacking identity.
Separate the child from the behavior.
This way the behavior changes.
And Identity remains protected.

08/30/2026

Tip 9: Focus on the Child, Not the Mistake

Correct behavior without attacking identity.
Separate the child from the behavior.
This way the behavior changes.
And Identity remains protected.

08/29/2026

Tip 8: Model What You Want to See

Children imitate more than they obey.
Children learn by watching examples, so they will copy your habits more than your lectures.

08/29/2026

Tip 8: Model What You Want to See

Children imitate more than they obey.
Children learn by watching examples, so they will copy your habits more than your lectures.

08/25/2026

08/24/2026

Tip 7. Give Choices Instead of Orders

Children cooperate more when they feel respected.
Choice reduces power struggles.
The work still gets done, but with less resistance.
They also learn decision making skills.

08/07/2026

Tip 6: Repair After Conflict
Good parents don’t avoid mistakes.
They repair them.
Apologizing teaches humility and accountability.
Children respect honest parents.