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08/24/2026

There are so many moments I hope to never forget. I do my best to write them down.

Let's share our beautiful summer moments we wish to always remember. 💭💚

08/22/2026

✨ Fun Fact Friday! 🧠

Sometimes play tells us what children don't yet have the words to say.

Children may use pretend play, movement, art, building, or storytelling to explore experiences and emotions. You might see a stuffed animal feeling scared, a block tower getting knocked down over and over, or the same pretend scenario played out again and again.

That's not just play. Children are making sense of their world.

Play gives children opportunities to:

💚 Explore big feelings in a safe way
💚 Revisit experiences and make sense of what happened
💚 Practice different responses to challenging situations
💚 Experience control when life feels unpredictable
💚 Release energy and stress through movement
💚 Practice regulation alongside a trusted adult

We don't always need to interpret the play, or turn it into a lesson. Sometimes our most powerful role is simply to be present, follow their lead, and provide a safe space for the play to unfold.

Try narrating what you notice without changing the story:

"That bear is really upset."
"You built it again after it fell down."
"Everyone is running somewhere safe!"

These simple observations let children know we're paying attention without taking over.

Play isn't a break from children's emotional development. Play is one of the ways emotional development happens.

🌿 Looking for practical, developmentally appropriate ways to support your child's regulation, connection, and learning through everyday play? Visit Purposeful Parenting Toolbox to explore classes, coaching, workshops, and resources designed to support the whole child.

08/20/2026

🍉 Developmental Tip: Real Tools for Real Work

Young children are capable of participating in food preparation much earlier than we sometimes realize.

Around 18 months, toddlers can begin helping prepare simple foods and practicing with child-safe kitchen tools. Pouring, scooping, stirring, spreading, transferring, and cutting soft foods give children opportunities to build coordination, fine-motor control, problem-solving, attention, and independence.

12 to 18-month-old children can do their part by helping to peel bananas, onions, etc. They can wipe up spills and wash fruits. Each stage has skills to support.

In our home, we introduced miniature, functional versions of everyday materials early. Around a year old, our son was using tempered glass plates, bowls, and cups, real metal silverware, and appropriately sized kitchen utensils.

We are very Montessori-inspired in our home, and one thing that was important to us was teaching him how to use and respect real materials rather than assuming he couldn't handle them. His materials were, and still are, chosen with his size and abilities in mind and, whenever possible, actually function the way the adult version does.

That doesn't mean handing a toddler an adult kitchen tool and hoping for the best. It means choosing an appropriate tool, modeling how it's used, supervising, and giving them lots of opportunities to practice.

Yes, things may spill. Things may break. The watermelon might look a little...questionable. That's part of learning!

When we give children real opportunities to contribute, we're communicating something pretty powerful:

You're capable. You're a part of this. Let me show you how.

In comments -
What was the first “real” kitchen job you let your child help with?

Have questions? Drop them in the comments! I'll share some links!

08/19/2026

🛠 Tool Time Tuesday!

Predictability.

Predictability doesn’t mean every day needs to run on a strict schedule. It means giving children enough information, consistency, and familiarity to know what to expect. This that can be a powerful regulation tool.

Think about how you feel when you walk into a situation and have no idea what’s happening, how long you’ll be there, or what’s expected of you. That uncertainty can be stressful for adults and it can be even harder for a developing nervous system.

Think of your daily rhythm.
What visual cues help you throughout the day?
• clock
• sun
• neighbors garbage can out on the street
• calendar notes

What visual cues do your children have?
Developmentally, the concept of "5 minutes" starts to form about age 7. From ages 4-6, children understand it as, 'almost time' or a 'short time.'

How can we support?

Let me count the ways!
1. Keep a general rhythm from day-to-day
2. Talk about what changes to expect today in relation to the typical rhythm
3. Use a magnetic/dry erase calendar to share events such as park visits, library outings, and home visitors.
4. Use visual timers to support routines. "We have 60 minutes of outside time before nap. When this timer rings, it's time to go inside."
5. Consistent language - when it comes to meals, regulation, flexible thinking/changes, new events, relationships, etc.
6. Daily visual schedule of the daily routines so children know what comes next.
7. Furniture stays in the same spot (yes, I'm talking to those who love to rearrange every few weeks - it can be great and it can be bothersome).
8. Include children in toy rotation before you simply swap toys without warning.
9. Big feelings will happen - have supports available and in a specific space so they're always accessible.

Want more? Message me for resources or to learn how I can support your family’s rhythm.

08/17/2026

If you were making a special summer treat with your child this week, which would you choose?

🍓 Homemade Popsicles
OR
🍨 Homemade Ice Cream

Both are packed with opportunities for little helpers to pour, stir, measure, taste, and learn alongside you. 💚

👇 Tell us:
Which are you choosing with your child this summer?

Drop your favorite recipe in the comments too!
We might all discover a new favorite. Mine uses a handful of spinach - no one has ever noticed! 😉

08/15/2026

✨ Fun Fact Friday! 🧠

Play isn't just fun—it's where children get to practice being with other people.

When children play together, they naturally encounter moments where they have different ideas, want the same toy, need to communicate a plan, or have to figure out what to do when things don't go their way.

That's social learning happening in real time!

Through play, children practice:

💚 Sharing their ideas and listening to others
💚 Negotiating roles, rules, and plans
💚 Taking turns and working together
💚 Reading facial expressions and body language
💚 Handling disagreements and finding solutions
💚 Adjusting their ideas when play takes an unexpected turn

And here's the important part: conflict during play isn't necessarily a problem to prevent. Those little disagreements can be valuable opportunities for children to practice communication, flexible thinking, problem-solving, and repair with adult support when they need it.

Instead of immediately solving the problem, try pausing and wondering aloud:

"Hmm... you both have different ideas. What could we do?" If you are using the Solution Kit from National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations - this is a perfect time to reference your cards! Find the link in the comments.

Play gives children a safe place to practice the social skills they'll use throughout their lives—and they don't have to master them before they begin. Play is where they learn.

🌿 Looking for practical, developmentally appropriate ways to support your child's learning through everyday play? Visit Purposeful Parenting Toolbox to explore classes, coaching, workshops, and resources designed to support the whole child.

08/13/2026

Mark your calendars! 🧭

For the fourth Fall season, Kids Nature Club will run for families with children ages birth to 6 years of age.

This season we are in Hudson. Farm Tour Day is September 30th at The Walnut Hill Farm! 🐐

The events will be up soon. Comment below to stay in the loop!

Registration is also in the comments for those ready to lock in our trail walk now.

08/13/2026

🌿 Moments From Class 🌿

This week we explored pollinators and pollination! 🐝🌼

Our friends learned more about bees at the Explorer Station and experienced pollination through hands-on play. Meanwhile, the mud kitchen was a popular place to be! Many of our pick-n-lick plants are blooming and just begging to be tasted—we sampled herbs, ground cherries, and nasturtium right from our classroom garden. 🌿

Loose parts became ball runs and obstacle courses as children built, experimented, changed their plans, and played together.

And then came an exciting discovery—a feather! 🪶

Our friends eagerly pulled out field guides and other resources to investigate and try to identify its owner. There were LOTS of guesses!

Do you have one? Take a close look at the feather and tell us who you think it belonged to in the comments! 👇

08/09/2026

And this is true for all ages!

Toddlers are still learning how to communicate, so their behavior often speaks louder than their words. Between ages 1 and 3, they're learning to express emotions, test boundaries, explore their world, and become more independent. That's why it's completely normal to see:

- Frequent use of the word "no"
- Big reactions to changes in routine
- Tantrums when they're tired, overwhelmed, or can't express what they need
- Clinginess during separation or in new situations
- Defiance as they learn where the boundaries are

These behaviors aren't signs that something is wrong. They're part of healthy brain development.

Explore the Baby Brain Map, our interactive guide to the science of early brain development, and discover how everyday moments help build a strong foundation for lifelong learning and well-being: https://bit.ly/4w3j4jg

08/08/2026

🌿Moments from Class 🌿

This week's class was full of wildflowers, sunshine, muddy hands, and connection. 💛

We made sun prints, headed out on a wildflower hunt, and stopped to examine the little things we discovered along the way, from flowers to slugs and everything in between.

The mud kitchen was especially busy! Children made mud pies and cakes with fresh peppermint, rosemary, dried flower petals, and buds. It smelled just as wonderful as it looked. 🌸

As we explored, we wondered together: What makes something a w**d instead of a wildflower? That conversation grew into something bigger - talking about what it feels like to be left out and remembering that we are all a little different, just like wildflowers. We all belong in this garden we call Earth. 🌎

Our parent focus this week was teaching risk assessment - helping children learn to notice, think, problem-solve, and make decisions about risk rather than simply hearing “be careful.” These skills reach far beyond physical play and support confidence, persistence, problem-solving, and a willingness to try things that feel challenging.

And woven through all of it was community - parents supporting one another, new families being welcomed in, and children learning and playing together!

Just another beautiful day of growing wild together.