Holy Untamed Birth

dear mama,
if you ever need that box,
use it.

it’s called a safe haven baby box.
a place where you can safely, legally, and anonymously surrender your baby—
no questions asked,
no judgment,
just safety and care.

you’re not a failure.
you’re not a bad mama.
you’re a good mama doing what you can
to give your baby a chance at life and love.

if you ever need it, please, use it❤️

Considering a VBAC but not sure where to start?

You’re not alone.

Many women feel unsure about what’s possible after a C-section or how to talk with their provider about their options.

But here’s the truth:
The confidence to plan for a VBAC doesn’t come from memorizing statistics… it comes from understanding your rights, your options, and your voice in birth.

That’s exactly what I teach inside my 8-week Birth Education Class, The Uncovering Birth Method.

Whether you’re planning a VBAC, a first birth, or just want to feel more empowered this time around..

🤍Learn how to ask the right questions
🤍Find a provider who truly supports you
🤍Understand informed consent (and what it actually means)
🤍Prepare your mind + body for birth
🤍Build connection with your partner and your support team

You’ll leave this class feeling prepared, supported, and confident in your decisions as you prepare for birth and beyond.

If this post spoke to you and you want to feel confident about your birth story, VBAC or not?

DM me “BIRTH CLASS” or tap the link in bio to join the next session.

We’ll spend months planning our wedding
— spend thousands of dollars on a single day. Special and significant in the most holy way, yes.

BUT when it comes to birth — the day God uses to bring NEW LIFE, the transition into motherhood and fatherhood – most of us just show up.

Sure we find the top rated carrier, have the most cozy stroller, have all the gidgets and gadgets (that probably wont get used), but the actual BIRTH we plan very little, if at all.

We hand the plan to a system.

Can you imagine if your wedding planner told you what food you could serve or what vows you could say?

You’d never agree to that. You would probably even find another wedding planner that aligned with what you wanted for your wedding.

But we don’t do it for our birth. We allow the system to make the decisions.

Mama, they don’t see you, they don’t see your baby. Maybe individual doctors and nurses do– but the SYSTEM they do not. They have a business to run and you and your birth are just business. This is the unfortunate truth.

Birth isn’t meant to be controlled — it’s meant to be supported, guided, surrendered too. Covered by the presence of our Creator. To unfold as the natural physiological process it is.

God designed birth.
He designed your body.
And He called you to bring forth life.

It’s time you prepare for birth with the same intention, prayer, and planning you put into any holy covenant….

because this one is sacred, too.

If you are ready to experience the kind of birth education that will explain the truth about birth, dissolve fears, discover deep emotional and spiritual understandings around bith, understand true emergencies, learn how your husband/partner can support you in the most grounded way then my birth class is for you.

Comment “birth” and I will send the link to register! Payment plans available!

Your last birth doesn’t have to define your next.

Maybe your first birth left you feeling fear, disappointment, or even grief. Maybe something happened that you knew wasn’t right but no one had answers. Everyone said “your baby is alive and safe, be grateful”. This lead you feeling dismissed, uncertain, and internally unsettled. Maybe questions and doubt carried into motherhood that you weren’t prepared for.

This time, it can be different.

A redemptive birth isn’t just about “getting through labor” this time— it’s about reclaiming your voice, restoring your trust, and stepping into a joy you always knew was possible.

Birth education gives you the tools to:
✔️ Understand your body and what’s happening at every stage of labor
✔️ Release tension and cope with contractions in ways that support your body’s natural rhythm
✔️ Advocate confidently for your choices in any birth setting
✔️ Recognize what is truly an emergency versus normal labor patterns
✔️ Be prepared for postpartum realities, so your healing continues after birth
✔️Guides your partner to step into his God-given role — not just being present, but anchoring and supporting you fully, creating the safety you need to surrender to the process of birth.
✔️Find healing through understanding

Investing in a birth education class —THIS CLASS—is the investment no one tells you about — but it can be the difference between carrying fear into your next birth and experiencing healing, empowerment, and a story that you had a say in.

Comment “birth” and I’ll send you the link to register for the next series beginning November 1st!!

Six years ago, when my husband and I started talking about babies, a friend told me about doulas and the support they give. I loved the idea of having someone by my side to guide me through labor, advocate for me, and help both my husband and I have the best experience possible.

When I became pregnant in 2020, I found Leila, a doula I immediately loved. But with hospital restrictions allowing only one support person, she asked me a question that changed everything: “Have you ever considered a home birth?”

At first, I was unsure. But when she explained that I’d have a midwife providing medical care at home, and that she’d be by my side too, in the comfort of my own home. It suddenly felt like the only way that made sense. My husband was immediately on board, and when I met Estee, a midwife from who had worked closely with Leila, it felt like God’s hand guiding us. We made the switch to home birth—and I never looked back.

From the start, I felt seen, heard, and supported. My first birth was long and exhausting, but when I delivered my baby boy into my husband’s hands and held him on my chest, I was overwhelmed with tears, love, and empowerment. With my second, labor moved much faster than I realized—I labored mostly on my own until my doula arrived, and just 40 minutes later, I delivered our second boy in the birth pool. Both times, I was fed, cared for, and tucked into my own bed with my babies in my arms.

After being blessed with two incredible home births, I knew I wanted other women to know they have options too. Too often, birth is treated like a problem to control instead of the sacred process God designed it to be.

As Jesus said:
“A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world.” — John 16:21

This is why I became a birth educator—to help women feel informed, supported, and empowered to write their own birth story.

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These are the three most common questions women ask as they prepare for birth — and they’re good ones to ask.

✨ How will I know I’m in labor?
Labor doesn’t look the same for every woman — or even for every birth. Some signs can include your waters breaking, losing the mucus plug, a burst of “nesting” energy, or even a deep pull to feel more connected to your loved ones (thanks to oxytocin rising).

✨ How can I manage the pain?
The instinct might be to avoid pain altogether with an epidural. But here’s what most don’t realize: muscle tension plays a big role in how pain is felt. The more tension we hold, the more intense it becomes. When we learn to release that tension, pain often eases dramatically and birth becomes more manageable.

✨ What if something goes wrong?
In our culture, birth is often treated as a problem waiting to happen — protocols and timelines are created to try to control it. But birth is a normal, physiological process designed by God. When we over-manage it, we can unintentionally create fear, stress, intervention — and sometimes the very problems we were hoping to prevent.

When we understand how birth works and trust the process, we can let go, surrender, and allow labor to unfold the way it was designed to.

Join me as we dive into learning what birth truly is and breakdown the fears that can hold us back from having a divine and empowering birth.

Comment “launch” and I’ll send you the link to register for our first series starting November 1st! PLUS use the code LAUNCH and save big! (Also link in bio 🤍)