04/06/2021
"This process of the good life is not, I am convinced, a life for the faint-hearted. It involves the stretching and growing of becoming more and more of one's potentialities. It involves the courage to be. It means launching oneself fully into the stream of life." Rogers 1961
In college, I volunteered and then helped coordinate The University of Chicago's Hotline. This was back in the day before Google. People would call and ask questions about library hours or movie times or when restaurants closed or random trivia questions. But often their initial call was just a cover or test of sorts, and they'd want to talk about deeper issues, their emotional states, some crisis, or thoughts of su***de. We Hotline staffers were trained to use reflective listening strategies, helping people clarify and reflect on their situation, to listen with patience and empathy. I was amazed how Carl Rogers' thin guide to reflective practice helped us navigate sometimes intense interactions, and how those calls helped people navigate the stress of their lives. I was amazed how the listening and reflective practices in which we were quickly trained helped us help people understand their experience and behaviors from the internal frame of reference of the individual. Only much more recently did I come to understand Carl Rogers as a theorist, psychologist, and educator, and his description of "person centered therapy" and "student centered education" in the context of other modes of therapy and education.
Underlying Rogers' work in psychology and education is a set of nineteen propositions. They explain how we individuals experience and make sense of phenomenon; develop a sense of ourselves based on our experience; internalize experiences in unique ways; and how our behaviors reflect our experiences, the way they have been internalized, and our individual drive to survive.
As a psychologist, Rogers explored the conditions that allow a therapist to engage with and help a patient. In his 1957 paper, "The Necessary and Sufficient Conditions of Therapeutic Personality Change", he described three core conditions. He said that the therapist must exhibit empathy, congruence, and unconditional positive regard. The therapist needs empathy to understand the thoughts and feelings of the patient, from the patient's point of view. The therapist needs to be genuine to the patient and the process, and be 'real'. And the therapist needs to treat and demonstrate the patient with unconditional positive regard - even as they try to understand the person, and reserve judgement of the patient's behaviors. Unconditional positive regard is described as necessary for the patient to open up and share as honestly as they can be honest with themselves, without fear of being judged by the therapist.
In education, Rogers explored the same propositions and conditions. In 1969 he wrote "Freedom to Learn". First, he pushes educators to recognize that they are not able to teach children directly. Students learn because of their unique experiences. Therefore, teachers must focus on and fashion the experiences they create in which children will learn. Second, he pushes educators to recognize that students will only learn if the experience is somehow relevant to them, if they help to maintain or "enhance" the child's sense of themselves. He notes that threats cause people to be more rigid and boundaried, less likely to make productive use of experiences. Therefore, he writes, teachers need to be thoughtful about the environment in which they are creating experiences, and thoughtful about how open the individual students will be to the experience.
Perhaps Roger's propositions provide a more structured way of understanding what John Dewey wrote about experience and education. Perhaps, too, he presages the work of cognitive scientists who have used different methods to understand the plasticity of the brain, the way experience grow neurons and synapses, the way experience triggers chemical that then trigger or quell fight-flight-or-freeze responses, who understand how stress and trauma impede learning.
Perhaps also Rogers' propositions provide a way of understanding the spirit. Rogers begin with the physical, phenomenal world that is external to any one organism, and the individual organism which strives not only to survive but to integrate experience and make sense of its world. His propositions describe not only a physical, biological world and an organism that is a body and a brain, but also an organism with uniqueness and drive. He describes the individual as being driven by more than the biological urge to survive. He describes life and learning as a process of "stretching and growing", of "becoming more and more of one's potentialities". Maybe it's that unique combination of experiences with the phenomenal world, that unique differentiation and distillation of the self, and that drive to fulfill one's potentialities that is the soul?
Interestingly, Rogers had his own path through life and relationship with spirit and soul. He was raised Catholic and was an alter boy. As an undergrad, he studied history and religion. He traveled to China for a Christian conference, but was inspired to question his religious beliefs. Still, upon graduating college, he matriculated at Union Theological Seminary before enrolling instead at Teachers College. At different times in his life, he described himself as atheist and agnostic. But later in life, his colleague Brian Thorne describes, Rogers' "openness to experience compelled him to acknowledge the existence of a dimension to which he attached such adjectives as mystical, spiritual, and transcendental.”^ Thorne says Rogers concluded that there is a realm "beyond" scientific psychology, a realm which he came to prize as "the indescribable, the spiritual."^^
^Thorne, Brian. Carl Rogers. Sage, 2003, pg IX
^^ Kramer, Robert. "The Birth of Client-Centered Therapy: Carl Rogers, Otto Rank, and" The Beyond"." Journal of Humanistic Psychology 35.4 (1995): 54-110.