Dear Becky

Healing from a broken heart - Three c's - Collect, Connect and Correct the dots of your life to understand and choose a better partner in life.

Three C’s to heal from a broken heart - Collect, Connect and Correct the Dots Of Your Life By three Cs I mean collect the dots of your past, connect the dots to how they affect you in the present day, and correct the dots so you…

I have finished writing the 12th chapter of "Thank you for cheating on me" So excited to bring this book to the world.

excerpt from 12th chapter

“I’m proud of my heart. It’s been played, stabbed,
cheated, burned, and broken…but somehow still works.
And they said miracles do not happen...”

― Alcatraz Dey

BLOOM FROM YOUR WOUND

Would you believe me if I tell you your life can actually be better than it was before your partner cheated? Would you believe me if I told you when you are in the midst of crying endlessly and your tears drown out every happy memory you have ever shared with that person, when you are vulnerable, raw, angry, resentful and full of rage, that the mental, emotional and spiritual wounds you have received can actually be a catalyst for change for the better? That you can bloom from your wounds?

how can you bloom from your wound of breaking up? i’m working on the final chapter of my book “thank you for cheating on me.” and that is the biggest take away i’d like to influence everyone going through a break up to shift their perspectives

I am interested in relationships and how the marriage is considered a failure unless one partner passes away?

Riding a wave of emotions is normal when you are considering or going through a breakup. What stories can you share of the ebb and flow of emotions and how did you keep from being swept away?

Do you believe like I do that the Covid-19 Pandemic will be a big course corrector in relationships? Being quarantined with your partner, do you feel your connection deepen or do you feel the rift between you two widen?

Disentangling. What do you think is the most important thing to disentangle?

The importance of breaking up from romantic relationships with compassion and love for both you and your former partner is key.

This cohort study on peoples lives from Harvard is wonderful.

What do you think?

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Seems like Divorce is in the air for 2020. 2 close relatives are headed that way. A guy I am currently dating is going through a divorce as I write this. I will say what I always say. I believe in divorce. In my opinion, divorce is an act of courage. It is one person saying I am not happy and I want to end this union.

I am working on a chapter from my upcoming book "Thank you for cheating on me." its about how to break up. i am going to write scripts, emails and how to gracefully say, i want to break up with you. Anyone else have stories they want to share here? I am all ears and would love to hear your stories.

writing my chapter Should I stay or should i go? what to do after a mate cheats on you or you cheat on them and get caught out there? HMMM?

To document and be transparent about my relationships. I broke up with an on again off again relationship for 2.5 years June of 2019. he said some things that refelcted my unconscious fears. HE said "you know you're not getting any younger. The chances of you finding anyone better than me are next to none. He also voiced that I am a terrible person and I am one step away from being homeless. Definitely his fears projected on me.

Its been 3 months since and he is calling and emailing and texting me on a regular basis asking for my opinions and help on things going on in his life. I was on the dating apps and met 2 other wonderful men who both wanted to date me seriously but I decided on the one that I felt the most comfortable with and could be myself around.

So what about you? Want to share any relationship and break us issues. I am here to listen to you.