03/27/2026
Everybody - I have an ask 🙏
At MakeLoveNotPorn we're building a lifelong s*x education ecosystem.
We took our s*x education aggregator hub MakeLoveNotPorn Academy live in early stage beta just 14 weeks ago.
We're real world testing while we bring educators and their work onto the platform.
We need your help.
I continue to struggle to find investors and philanthropic donors (yes, you can donate direct from your DAF to support us here: https://givebutter.com/InspireAccessxMLNP)
The Academy operates the museum model. It's free for everyone, but if you believe in what we're doing, you can support us and enable us to keep building and operating, by becoming a member.
We have several different tiers of membership, so you pay what you can afford.
Check them out here, and please, join us to help change the world: https://www.makelovenotporn.academy/membership
03/19/2026
My 12-minute TEDxLausanne TEDxLausanneWomen talk from last November has just been published online!
Now you can watch the talk that rocketed tiny Switzerland to be MakeLoveNotPorn's third highest source of traffic after the US and the UK 🙂
+ the talk that introduced MakeLoveNotPorn Academy going live to the world:
How to Change the World Through S*x | Cindy Gallop | TEDxLausanneWomen
NOTE FROM TED: TEDx events are independently organized by volunteers. The guidelines we give TEDx organizers are described in more detail here: http://storag...
01/20/2026
Thank you SO MUCH Samantha Niblett MP for your incredible support for MakeLoveNotPorn and MakeLoveNotPorn Academy 😍
This is when I really wish my parents were still alive - because they would have been absolutely amazed, and they would have been SO PROUD 💖
07/28/2025
At MakeLoveNotPorn, we're telehealth for your s*x life - as the only real world platform celebrating how real world people manage their real world s*x lives through real world health conditions. Vaginismus is far more common than you might think - estimates indicate it affects up to 17% of all women. We were delighted that our wonderful MakeLoveNotPornstar Fern was happy to talk to Seema Anand Storytelling, to help as many other vaginismus sufferers as possible, as she already does by sharing her personal journey on MLNP 💗
An adult content creator’s journey with vaginismus
My conversation today explores an adult content creator’s struggles, successful and set-backs with vaginismus. Fern makes adult content for a platform called...
07/11/2025
Parents of Hudson - you don't want to miss my talk at The Spark of Hudson next Friday July 18 🙂 More details and how to register here: https://sparkofhudson.org/upcoming-events/making-love-not-porn-things-to-know-about-s*x-in-the-real-world-for-teens
07/08/2025
“do I have to show my face?” while we adore admiring your beauty, no you don’t! swipe for some ideas how to stay incognito and still share your love 🥸
07/03/2025
If you’re looking for love in NYC, let set you up on a (free) date and share the love on 🥰
The sign up link is in bio ❤️
And if you’re outside of NYC, sign up so we know where to come for season 2 ⭐️
07/02/2025
This is for the 🌶️ ones 👋
Our MakeLoveNotP*rnstars asked, we delivered, and now we’re dropping this social marketing guide here for anyone else that's looking for more 👀 on their 🔥
If you're a social pro, what other tips do you have for those just starting to share?
06/24/2025
Hey New York 👋 If you’re looking for real love, we’d love to have you as a contestant on season one of Reel Love 😍 Sign up at ❤️
06/09/2025
Everybody who missed my SXSW London keynote last Friday on 'How S*x Education Can Help End Gender Violence And Bring Back Love', or who would like to watch it - here it is! Please take just 26 minutes out of your day to watch:
"I'm not going to talk to you about the problems I'm addressing. You know the problems. They're all around you in the media. The stats and data are out there. They're around you in your personal lives. I'm guessing most of you have watched 'Adolescence' on Netflix. So, I'm going to talk to you today about SOLUTIONS. Eight solutions, that every single one of you in the audience today can implement."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOnymx5eTi8
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How S*x Education Can Help End Gender Violence and Bring Back Love
Cindy Gallop at SXSW London; June 6th, 2025 SXSW London says:"Given how much Adolescence has resonated in the UK—and Cindy’s expertise across s*xtech, s*x ed...