We Are Multipled

Best.Gift.Ever. Doing all of his honey to do list home projects I’ve been asking about in one day today :-)

Celebrating Mother’s Day it’s about gratitude for my mom and all the mother figure’s I have had in this world. As the twins have grown, it’s also been about allowing my kids to get excited and do special things with their dad for me.
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This year, it was sleeping till 7 am, spin class, solo solo trip to target and coming home to all of this.
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And Doing all of his honey to do list home projects I’ve been asking about in one day today :-)
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Mama’s, fill your cup today with what YOU NEED. Some years it’s been spending time with the kids and some years it’s been having a whole day to myself. Listen to your heart enjoy your day.
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Find your tribe, and make it a twin or triplet tribe. Parents of multiples NEED other parents of multiples. No one get its like another parent of multiple babes. All of us have unique and wonderful stories to tell. We are here to help. We are here to listen. We got you.
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Want to get paired with a parent team? We got you, hit us up and we will connect you with a parent set that is on the same path but just a wee bit ahead of you. Think of it as Big Parent Little Parent mentoring.

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Real talk, multiple pregnancies can be complicated. So be prepared with a plan for your birth, but also be prepared for the birth you didn't plan for. Know your options and what you can advocate for- for yourself and for your babies.
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Find a doctor you really trust and surround yourself with an inner circle or family and friends who will help and support you.

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HAPPY MONDAY Y'ALL! Start your week with sitting down and envisioning what your life COULD look like, wither your babes are still inside the womb or earthside, you have the power to change embrace your parenting path.
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This is the time to do the work. For yourself. With your partner. For your family. Talk about what you envision parenting to be like for you both. Do the emotional and prep work so that you can be present and experience raising your babies with joy.
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It's worth it to do the work to be aligned, to identify your strengths and weaknesses. Then dream big!
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Imagine the parents you want to be and the life you want to give your kids, and plot your goals towards that so you can enjoy the moments of daily life.

We will give you the tools to support you so you can revel in the magic of having multiples. Knowledge preparation and awareness gives your confidence and a stable platform while raising two or three or more beings at a time. DM us for a link to our step-by-step e-book to put your dream life into an executable and practical road map for your new life.
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If you are not a planner, you are about to become one. Seriously, having multiples means EVERYTHING for your pregnancy must happen early and you must plan for their healthy and happy arrival. First and second trimester are critical for the babes, and for yourself and your partner.
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Planning will help keep you grounded and reveling in the magic of creating multiple humans in your body at once. (Yeah.. that's what you're doing).
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Ask questions. Find your tribe. Do your research. Set your goals. Develop or root your family values. Your ethos.
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Your goal is to bring happy humans into the world and raise them to be happy, healthy, and emotionally aware. Practice what you preach!

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Two for one special ! Buy one, get two free! High five your partner!
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All joking aside, this is the mantra that we repeat DAILY to each other. This is a magical experience. Raising multiples levels the parenting playing field.
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Most families we talk to experience the same feeling. Multiples equals time to step up... TOGETHER. You will go through the good, bad and ugly as one.
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Partnership will never be more important that it is right now. Start early and do the work. Be emotional. Be vulnerable. Share your hopes. Share your fears. Give yourself the time and space you need to honor this experience. for each other, for your relationship, and for your kids.
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Talk about everything from your birth plan to sleeping training to schedules. Take the time to shore up your relationship, because you will need to be a strong unit once the babes arrive.
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If you want a road map and workbook to start the above conversation and put all this on this paper with your spouse- we got one for you, so DM us and we will shoot it over:)
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Do the work so you can ENJOY IT! Don't forget to have fun. This (for most of us) is a once in a lifetime experience. Make it count !

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Repeat this over and over. That is all.
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This is such a gift to have multiple kids, we want to do everything in our power to create support, education and opportunities for families to thrive not just survive because the joy is four-fold on this path.
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You get there with help, knowledge and support. If you don't know where to start, we can help:)

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The unknown is scary. Fear is real in the thought cycle when you find out that you are having multiple babies.
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If you feel alone in this journey, its ok to feel that way. We did. That's why we're here now. Support.
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Be stoked! Find your people (yay, you already have because you are here!), do your homework, have a real talk with your spouse about what you want, plan for what you want to happen and plan for all that you don't want to happen.
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And if you want a free workbook to start getting all the above on paper, we got you. DM us and we will shoot it over.
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Keep your chin up and believe you can do it. The step one in success is imagining it.

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You are growing multiple babies at once. You are a superhero. Own it, wear it and be so proud of your body.
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You are about to receive a lot of information that can be overwhelming and you will need to start to make lots of choices.
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Take a deep breath and know that it will all be ok. Sit in the amazingness that are a parent to a grip of kids- all at once. You got this.
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Want to war game all your worries and questions? DM us, we will hop on a totally free no strings attached zoom call to say hi and help you strategize your new life.

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The MOMENT you find out you are having multiple babies is such a crazy experience. Some laugh, some cry, some do all those things and then pass out.
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What is the same for everyone is that your parenting journey is 100000% fundamentally changed. From that second on, you are a superhero.
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So go ahead, freak out to get it out and then don't because you are not alone in this journey- we got you.

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