01/04/2026
Another one of our brothers gone too soon…
My dear sweet friend, sober fellow, coach, father, gay rights activist, brilliant singer, dancer, thinker, creative, husband, has now gone on broadway amongst the stars in heaven. Dear Bret, you’ll be missed more than you could ever know. There is nothing to fill the void but so much to receive from the love, light and power that you were / will always be in the world. Shine on. I’m sure the Magic Kingdom is WAY cooler up there. But seriously my heart hurts and my eyes are full of tears, yet so is my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you, his husband Stephen Hanna-Shuford & their son, Maverick. ❤️🩹😭🫶🩷🤍
07/25/2025
Hudson Valley Men’s Circle – Sunday, July 27 · 4:30–6:00 PM · Red Hook, NY
Join us for a 90‑minute men’s circle led by Ben Curtis of The Dude Nation. In this confidential and consent-based space, men gather for sharing, breathwork, meditation, movement, writing, laughter, and connection. All men are welcome. No pressure to speak—just show up with presence and authenticity.
📍 Location: The O Zone, 148 Pitcher Ln, Red Hook, NY
💵 Suggested Donation: $20 (sliding scale) — your contribution supports the O Zone and helps subsidize others.
🔗 Register here: Reserve your seat
The Dude Nation - (HVMC) Hudson Valley Men’s Circle
The Premier Men’s Development Organization.
06/11/2025
Hey dudes,
welcome to our community. Whether you’re new to our brotherhood or been here for years, we are making some upgrades and we want you to be a part of it! Please join our Dude Community group here: https://chat.whatsapp.com/H6BibJpC4E4KMt1HTjVLvx
Rising tide lifts all ships
Let’s rise together
See you there,
Ben
Dude Community
WhatsApp Group Invite
01/06/2025
Hey friends,
I’ve been reflecting on the year ahead and how much Dude School has grown from a dream into a reality that’s changing lives.
If you’re a man who’s feeling burned out, stuck, or ready to level up—or you know someone who could use some support—this might be the perfect opportunity.
Dude School is a 10-week live masterclass I created to help men build confidence, set boundaries, and create healthier relationships—with themselves, their partners, and their work.
🛠️ What You’ll Get: Real tools to manage stress, improve communication, and step into your power—with weekly challenges and a group of supportive, like-minded men.
🗓️ We start Monday, January 13, and there’s still time to join!
👉 Sign Up Here: https://thedudenation.com/dude-school
💬 Want to chat first? Book a free 20-minute discovery call: https://thedudenation.com/dude-discovery
This is your time. Let’s make 2025 the year everything changes.
With gratitude,
Ben
[email protected]
Founder and CEO, The Dude Nation
P.S. If you’ve been following my journey and want to support it, please share this post or send it to someone who could use this space. 🙏
The Dude Nation - 1:1 Dude Discovery Call
Your Invitation to Transformation.
12/14/2024
Why Boundaries are the Key to Your Next Breakthrough:
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DDiS_wcv7Dx/?igsh=NjhuM3B4bmFqNW5j
This Sunday, we’re kicking off Boundary Bootcamp, a free 5-day challenge to help you reclaim their energy, strengthen relationships, and set boundaries that actually stick.
It’s completely free to join, and there’s also a VIP option with live group coaching each evening for just $50.
If you’ve ever felt drained or stuck saying “yes” when you really mean “no,” this is for you. Let’s step into 2025 with clarity, confidence, and boundaries that work.
👉 Free Sign-Up: https://thedudenation.com/bbc
👉 VIP Sign-Up (LIVE COACHING CALLS): https://thedudenation.com/vip-boundary
See you there!
~ Ben
The Dude Nation - VIP Boundary Bootcamp - Next Level + Live Calls w/ Ben Curtis
Your Invitation To Transformation.
11/06/2024
Dear Community
I’m thinking of doing a pivot to focus my coaching expertise to support young men in confidence, emotional intelligence, relationship, purpose & self esteem
AND / OR
Creative professionals (ie actors, designers, artists, etc) in confidence, voice, branding, marketing, work/life balance, etc
What would be most valuable to you?
If you were to take any kind of course or workshop from me, what would it be and why?
(Please answer seriously - I value your feedback and opinion)
Grateful
Ben
10/23/2024
Tonight. Come join us men. Open community call. Ever wanted to learn more about Mens work or The Dude Nation? TONIGHTS the night
Many of us have been struggling to carry our burdens in the wake of the recent natural disasters.
Tomorrow at 7 PM ET, we invite you to join our Monthly Men's Open Community Call—a space where you can set those burdens down, even just for an hour, and reconnect with a group of men who understand. 💪
For those who’ve been spared, your presence could make a world of difference. This is a time to share your strength and compassion and to help lift up those who need it.
🌲 Together, we grow deeper, more resilient, and stronger.
Register here: https://vist.ly/3mjhrvc
Let’s stand together.
Ben & Adam
09/25/2024
Hey dudes ! Reminder to register for our community call TONIGHT, Wed Sep 25 (7pm EST) if you haven’t already!
Why register?
1. It’s FREE
2. It could be life changing
3. It’s a safe and sacred space to share, learn and ask anything on your heart and mind about Mens work, our organization and what’s possible for you.
4. What could be more important than developing relationships in your life?
Ready? Click here to join the movement:
The Nation Community Call by The Dude Nation
09/20/2024
🚨BIG ANNOUNCEMENT & SPECIAL INVITATION 🤝
This Wednesday, Sept 25th at 7 p.m. Eastern, we’re hosting an open Dude Nation community call. It’s a great chance to experience what we’re about, invite any men in your life who might be interested, ask any questions about men’s work, and hear about some exciting events we have coming up.
I’d love for you to join and bring some other too if possible—it’s the best way to connect and see what we’ve been building.
Let me know if you’re in!
Here’s a link to register:
https://pensight.com/x/thedudenation/community-call?step=form&sessionId=03e9dda6-c0a0-43c5-89a3-1bb6f524760d
🫶👊 Ben (founder/ceo)
The Dude Nation - The Nation Community Call
Reclaiming Healthy Masculinity.