She gave everything, he gave nothing.
Rude Advice
Divorced after 16 years of marriage, I share my mistakes and experiences to help you.
With over 300K TikTok followers, Rudy A, the host of the Rude Advice Podcast, has helped thousands navigate their marriages, relationships, and dating lives. Drawing from genuine life experiences, Rudy provides practical, proven advice. Married at 21 and divorced after a 16-year union, he openly shares his mistakes and lessons learned to guide your marriage, enhance your dating experiences, and prepare you for life after divorce.
05/04/2026
Guys...it has always been like this. Nothing has changed.
Ladies, this video will save your marriage.
After years of field research and hundreds of dates, I can say with 100% certainty the women want three things:
1. Tacos
2. To laugh
3. To feel safe
What’s the most painful part of a divorce?
For me…It was taking down the photos. That’s when it finally hits… it’s over.
Follow for real, no-BS advice on getting through heartbreak.
If you’re going through it, download my Divorce Strategy Guide and my “Get Over Your Ex” guide — link in bio.
You're going to be just fine.
Ladies, don't marry your second choice.
What do men want on a first date?
What do women want on a first date?
You weren’t afraid to leave, you were afraid to start over.
This adjustment after divorce is the most painful to deal with.
04/30/2026
The response to my “young men are lost” video honestly caught me off guard. I wasn’t expecting that level of rage and hostility on a message that was meant to push young men toward growth instead of giving up.
So I made a follow-up video reacting to some of those comments. Fair warning, this one is blunt, direct, and not for everyone. But sometimes people don’t need comfort… they need the truth.
Watch with discretion. Let me know where you stand.
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