07/07/2026
Thoughts from the Tutor’s Table 🍎
After more than 22 years in education, here’s something I’ve learned…
Technology is an incredible tool—but the way we use it can either support a child’s development or compete with it.
Before anyone comes after me… 😄
I am not against technology.
I use technology every single day to teach, create, research, and communicate.
I am concerned about excessive recreational screen time and the growing expectation that every child needs a smartphone.
Call me old-fashioned, but… I have a soft spot for a good flip phone! 😄
It makes calls.
It sends texts.
It lets parents and kids stay connected.
Mission accomplished. ✅
Children don’t need social media, endless scrolling, games, and constant notifications just to let Mom know practice ended early.
Many pediatric and health organizations encourage families to limit recreational screen time for school-aged children and teens and to prioritize sleep, physical activity, reading, and face-to-face interactions. Yet many children spend 4–7 hours or more each day on recreational screens.
Research has associated excessive recreational screen time with:
🧠 Reduced attention and focus
😴 Poorer sleep
📚 Lower academic performance
😊 Increased symptoms of anxiety and depression
🤝 Fewer opportunities to build social and communication skills
Sometimes I think about growing up before smartphones.
We rode our bikes until the streetlights came on, got wonderfully dirty, knocked on friends’ doors to see if they could play, got bored enough to become creative, and somehow our parents still managed to find us when they needed us.
A smartphone isn’t just a phone—it’s a responsibility. It brings social media, internet access, group chats, digital footprints, online safety concerns, and constant notifications. Every family has to decide when their child is truly ready to manage everything that comes with it—not just the ability to make a call.
Instead of asking,
“When should my child get a smartphone?”
Maybe we should first ask,
“Are they ready for the responsibility that comes with one?”
🌳 Strong roots aren’t built on screens.
They’re built through conversations.
Books.
Curiosity.
Adventures.
Scraped knees.
Creativity.
Laughter.
Mistakes.
Board games.
Family dinners.
Boredom that sparks imagination.
Time together.
Our children have the rest of their lives to stare at screens. They only get one childhood. Let’s give them one worth remembering. 🌞
&BranchLearningStudio