08/26/2026
📓Something I didn’t say in the video: you’re being asked to evaluate a kid who doesn’t exist yet.
The five year old in front of you in February is not the five year old who walks in next August. Six months at this age is enormous. That’s why the “is he ready” question feels so impossible. You’re making a call about a moving target, usually at the exact moment your kid is between two versions of himself.
So if you’re spiraling right now, it’s not because you’re missing something obvious. It’s because the question genuinely can’t be answered by watching harder.
That’s what an evaluation is for, figuring out where your kiddo actually is, and what setting will meet them there.
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