Learn to listen so the other person feels heard, to speak so the other person will listen, and resolve conflict through negotiation that meets both needs.
Problems erupt into stormy confrontations or end in emotional deadlocks. You give in,
Give up,
Fight back,
Or walk away
How do you deal with problems
In your life
at home with your spouse or kids
at work with your co-workers or supervisors? How do you talk to each other? How do you listen? How do you get your needs met? There is an exciting alternative to conflicts that often seem to
02/02/2024
Save the date for the first concert of the year with Kimball, Rick, and me on March 15. Here are the details and ticket information.
Songs of Hope & Celebration Concert A new thought, science of mind and religious science based metaphysical spiritual center for spiritual growth, personal development and community building.
04/25/2023
Pause. Breathe. Space.
1. Pause: when you're mad as heck, or triggered, upset, sad, defensive, etc. PAUSE!
2. Breathe: Take a deep breath. These two deliberate acts sets you up for #3...
3. Space: Allow steps 1 & 2 to work together to give you SPACE between being triggered and reacting.
Any questions 😉?
03/22/2023
03/18/2023
A weekend retreat in San Juan Bautista with Lee and Arnie.
Super excited! I’m planning to create an online course about Effective Communication for people in committed relationships.
I’m looking for some people who are willing to do a quick 15 min market research phone call with me.
I’m looking for:
1. People who are starting to struggle in their relationship and want to rebuild a loving connection with their partner
2. People who work with people who struggle in their relationships like: coaches, counselors, and entrepreneurs.
Please comment below or PM me if you know anyone who can potentially help.
Help needed!
I’m planning to create an online course about Effective Communication for people in committed relationships.
I’m looking for 20 people to do a quick 15-20 min market research with on the phone/Zoom.
If you are willing to get on the phone with me to do this quick market research, please comment below or PM me.
Much appreciated in advance!
03/09/2022
Lee Garland and Arnie Buss just released their new book in honor of the beloved Selwa Said. It's called "Hear Here" and you can grab your copy here: https://tinyurl.com/mw6b99b3
You may remember Selwa. This book shares lovely moments with this remarkable woman as we share her teachings.
Get your copy here: https://tinyurl.com/mw6b99b3
Hear Here Hear Here
10/30/2021
Guess who might have a book coming out?
Arnie and I presented a Level 1 workshop yesterday online. It was stupendous! I love to see new groups learn the skills. What a gift.
12/28/2017
2017-12-11 “2017-12-11”.
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