09/18/2026
Laid off 3 times. Here's what I learned
I've been laid off three times now, and every time, the same lesson comes back.
When you lose your job, you find out very quickly who really had your back. Very few people from the company I worked for reached out to ask if I was okay. The people who did check in, without any agenda, showed me which relationships were strong and which were just convenient. As a petroleum engineer with more than 10 years in oil and gas, I've learned to pay close attention to that difference.
Have you ever been surprised by who reached out after a tough career moment?
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