Romy Moreno

As expected for a 9 year and the year of the Snake, there was a lot of shedding. Endings. Closures. Layers coming off.

This year wasn’t about letting go or ending things with other people. 2022-2024 handled that. It was about me. My patterns. My blind spots. The subconscious things I didn’t know were still lurking.

Scorpio season almost took me out. It felt like I was fighting the final boss and won. The identity shift that came from that chapter is undeniable, and I love the rebirth that came from everything that had to die.

Your entire existence can’t be about healing and “doing the work.” You still have to enjoy your life. There were beautiful moments. So much travel. Real joy. Constant reminders that I love my life.

I worked with and guided incredible people this year, individuals who showed up the way I do. Spoke at 3 different events. Hosted my first international retreat all while going to school and being a safe, loving, present mom. ::pats herself in the back::

This version of me is the one who can hold what I’m calling in for 2026. I didn’t have the capacity and space before but I sure do now. Happy New Year!

Self-respect looks like consistency, discernment, having standards and no longer entertaining what doesn’t meet them.

This month inside my community, we focused on self-respect. How you train it, how you protect it, and how you live from it without needing validation.

If you’re moving into the new year ready to lead your life differently. Grounded, intentional, and clear Phoenix Risers is still open at the founders rate until the new year.

You have to get comfortable with people not liking you when you stop living for their approval.�
Putting yourself first is uncomfortable when you’re used to people-pleasing.

You are not here to manage other people’s emotions or control outcomes. If your intentions are good and you’re not trying to hurt anyone, do the thing anyway. Let them feel how they feel.�
If you’re looking for a space to work on this join Phoenix Risers before price increases in 2026.

If you’re feeling behind, overwhelmed, or like you didn’t do “enough” this year, pause.

That feeling usually belongs to the people who carried the most and acknowledged themselves the least.

Reflection is power. Looking back with honesty changes how you move forward with intention.

This is the kind of work we do inside Phoenix Risers, slowing down, telling the truth, integrating the year instead of rushing past it, and building self-trust from the inside out.

Founders rate is still available, and the price will increase in the new year. If you want a grounded, safe space to do this work with support, join us now. Link in bio. #2026

Jules came to me as a domestic violence survivor who had been held hostage for months, shattered, and trying to survive herself.

She was in a place where she genuinely didn’t want to be alive anymore. As she mentions, it wasn’t idolization. She had a plan and it terrified her. This work pulled her out of the darkest season of her life, literally.

She had no idea how she was going to pay to work with me, she just knew staying where she was wasn’t an option.

She said yes before she knew HOW and now she’s helping other people create financial freedom, regulating her nervous system and leading herself in a way she never thought was possible. The glow up is insane. This is not the same woman I met.

I don’t lower my prices or give discounts to “help” people anymore. Every time I’ve done that in the past, it actually pulled them out of their power. It kept them in the story that they couldn’t…instead of rising to meet the version of themselves who can. I didn’t do this for Jules and this is the result.

This is also why I don’t entertain excuses. When you want something badly enough, you find a way. I’ve done it. My clients have done it. It’s all about what you make a priority.

Jules is proof of what happens when you say yes to yourself before you feel ready. You meet a version of you that you didn’t even know was possible.

If you are feeling a pull or relate to Jules in any way apply to work with me in bio. I have 2 spots for 1:1.

You don’t have to manage every relationship you’re in. Say what you need, say what you feel, and then pay attention.

People will always show you where you stand in their life. You just keep talking yourself out of it.

If you’re the only one understanding everything someone else is going through while you barely get the minimum back… that’s not a relationship. You’re carrying the whole thing and then wonder why you’re always so exhausted.

Your power comes from letting people be who they are and choosing how they fit in your life.

Having anger and rage isn’t the problem (both human emotions) unprocessed emotion is.

I know this first hand. Unhealed me carried a lot of anger, and being ruled by Mars didn’t make it subtle.

People see how peaceful and grounded I am now, but they don’t realize how much work it’s taken and continues to take to be here.

I still have moments where my mind goes straight to violence and I have to reel myself back in. The thoughts are still there.

I had to unlearn having to use my fists and violence to solve problems. Responding instead of reacting keeps me in my power. No one has that much power over me because I’m in control now. I never was before.

But there is also confidence in knowing that if I’m ever in a situation where I needed to unleash this dark passenger to defend myself, I can. FAFO.

Your emotions are only a problem when you hold them in. Feel your feelings, even the anger and rage. Find a healthy outlet that won’t get you locked up. 😂

If you’re ready to learn that kind of control, apply to work with me.

This retreat was powerful, raw, and transformative. Scorpio season. Ta**us Full Moon. The day after Día de Mu***os. The energy was sacred, and everything aligned exactly as it was meant to.

This was a rebirth. It’s a 9 year, a time of closure, and every person there released something to make room for greater things. Myself included.

I got the download back in June while at to keep my retreats intimate (8-10 people) and that’s exactly what I’ll continue to do.

Keeping it small created something rare. That level of intimacy and exclusivity allows me to truly vet who’s in the space, making sure the energy is aligned and protected.

Some people think this kind of experience is “too expensive.” While the ones who showed up were asking me not to pause retreats next year (before even leaving Tulum) because they want to come back.

Those are my people and they’ve been pretty convincing but we’ll see. I don’t blame them, Tulum was absolute magic.

You’ve spent so long surviving chaos that peace feels suspicious. But that’s the work, learning to let safety feel safe.

This is the work we do together. If you’re ready to stop looping through the same emotional patterns and start creating relationships that feel steady and secure (including the one with yourself) head to the link in my bio.

Don’t let what they did to you turn you into them. Discernment isn’t about closing off it’s about moving smarter and learning lessons.

You can stay kind and still have boundaries.
You can stay open and still protect your peace.

Take the lesson. Adjust. But never let the pain make you lose the good parts of you that make you special.