Tantra Love Coach

Hi everyone! If you are looking to learn and grow in the domains of Health, Wealth, or Sexuality - or generally want to level up your life, check this out.

I’m offering an accountable virtual group coaching program called Ta***ic Transformation. It’s 3 months of weekly calls with teachings followed by group coaching. Cost is only $600 for the 3 months. Starts Wednesday 4/5. Hope to see you there!

www.ta**ralovecoach.com

Hi friends, if you’d like to explore Ta**ra, sexual freedom, and bliss, we’re hosting a retreat in Austin, Tx on a 44 acre retreat ranch with hot tubs, dipping pools, horseback riding and much more.

We’ll be exploring self love, boundaries and desires, self acceptance, dance/movement, sexuality and spirituality, ta**ra massage, and connection with yourself and others.

The retreat is for singles and couples. It’s Oct 6-9 and early bird pricing ends in a week. This is a screened and curated retreat, please check it out and apply to join us.

Ta**ra Love Retreat | Talkta**ratome Features 2 twin beds that can be converted into a king-size bed and a full size futon sofa/sleeper. With a fridge and ceiling fan you have all the comfort you could desire. High-quality tempurpedic style mattresses with luxurious bamboo sheets- your comfort is our priority.

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐓𝐨 𝐁𝐞 𝐀 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐇𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐧 ⁣
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Many people collapse controlling actions with controlling emotions. We don’t want to control our emotions. Emotion is the wild horse on the prairie. We can allow our emotions to roam free. However, once we experience our emotions, the next steps are crucial: ⁣
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🚫 You can “REACT,” which would mean you are acting on past trauma, patterns, and an unconscious way of being. That typically does not end well for you or those around you. ⁣
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✔️ You can “RESPOND,” which would mean you take a moment, breathe, and bring consciousness to the action you take next. Stopping to think about what you are about to do after experiencing your emotions is vital in personal growth and especially in relationships. It’s called awareness. ⁣
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This is the difference between acting on your past in a way that does not serve you OR owning your past and choosing a new future. ⁣
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One way to support yourself in responding rather than reacting is to get aligned with a grand vision. ⁣
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What is a higher purpose or way of life that you commit to?⁣
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Maybe your vision is “a world that is loving, kind, and compassionate.” If that is your vision, and you are in an experience of being triggered or emotional, you can allow your experience to happen, but stop, breathe, think, and align yourself with your vision before you take action. ⁣
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This may be the difference between you yelling at someone and playing the victim OR having a rational conversation coming from love that serves your higher good. ⁣
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Either way, you should allow your emotions to bubble up. ⁣
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It’s what you do next that will show you your divinity, evolution, and grace. ⁣

Happy International Women’s Day⁣
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Only in the past decade did I start to understand women. In that understanding sprouted a seed of awe, compassion and inspiration. But it took years of deep shadow work, reading dozens of books, studying Ta**ra, and much more - all so that I could decondition myself and unlearn so much of what “society” teaches men about women. All so that I could step out of my unconscious “role” as a man in this world and view with fresh eyes your beauty and struggles. All so that I could see the obvious - YOU ARE THE MOST POWERFUL BEINGS ON THIS EARTH. ⁣
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You inspire me to work harder on myself because we men get to catch up so we can honor, love, and hold you the way you deserve. ⁣
I know there is still a long way to go, and I will never fully understand what it’s like to be a woman, but I am trying. I am supporting other men in doing the same. ⁣
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I am sorry that so many of us don’t truly see you. We haven’t walked in your shoes or lived in your body. Many men don’t honor you everyday, let alone on this day, and for that I apologize on behalf of all my brothers. We can do better, and we will. ⁣
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Forgive us by teaching us. Forgive us by being so strong with your boundaries, that we MUST evolve. Speak to your desires with such confidence and passion that our world is colored as vividly as yours. Naturally select us from a place of total equality, justice and nurturing care. Lovingly reject men that don’t hold sacred space for you. Because you deserve it. It’s long overdue. ⁣
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You see, we don’t know what it’s like to be reading a book alone at the beach and be interrupted by unwanted conversation over and over again. We don’t know what its like to walk down the street feeling sexy and vibrant and having people “cat call” and oogle us. We don’t know what it’s like to feel unwanted touches all over our body on crowded subways and clubs. We don’t know what it’s like to be paid less for the same job or have opportunities ripped from our grasp just because of our gender. ⁣
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We have never once experienced menstruation in this modern world that ignores or mocks it. Women used to bleed into the earth together during the full moon, relieved of all their tribe duties for its duration, honoring and ritualizing this sacred cycle of life together.

What happened to that? We are sorry. You deserve better.

And still you persevere. Still you demonstrate strength and grace in your mind, body, and soul in ways we can only imagine.

But we see you. We are experiencing empathy in new ways. We are not just watching anymore. We see you.

Thank you to every woman in the world. You are the world.

“Just walk softly” she said, as I wondered how she gracefully traversed the jagged rocks barefoot. ⁣
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I seemed to stumble and hit every sharp edge I could. ⁣
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My feet coming down with all my weight as if I was walking on grass. ⁣
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I wasn’t adjusting for the terrain or whatever I encountered. I just powered through, quickly trying to get to the end of the path. I absorbed the pain. ⁣
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I remembered someone once told me, “leave the hammer on the table.” ⁣
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It was a metaphor letting me know that I am strong and powerful and don’t have to beat people with a hammer to get my point across. I didn’t need to be so tough, rigid, and unyielding. My energy and how I show up in the world displayed my strength and power. ⁣
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The real task was to lead with love and softness more and more. ⁣
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The challenge for me in this life was to receive and be more gentle.⁣
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I practiced on the rocks. ⁣
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I began to float across them. ⁣
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I danced with them allowing my softness to meet their hardness. ⁣
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There was no pain to absorb. ⁣
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Just the space between us. ⁣
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“Just walk softly,” she said. ⁣
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And the whole world became mine.

𝐒𝐮𝐛𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧⁣
/səbˈmiSHən/⁣
•𝘯𝘰𝘶𝘯•⁣
The action or fact of accepting or yielding to the will or authority of another person. ⁣
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Let go of the idea that submitting to someone is negative or weak. It doesn’t mean you lost. ⁣
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This isn’t war. ⁣
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This is love. ⁣
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How deeply can you devote yourself to another? ⁣
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Have you ever stood at the edge of love and looked over? ⁣
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We talk all day about surrender in the spiritual community. It is vital for healing and a life at ease. ⁣
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But submission is left in the shadows because it has been misunderstood and abused too often. ⁣
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It is cast off by society where the B**M community eagerly dances with it, enjoying the healing and deep pleasure it provides when experienced in safety. ⁣
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To shine a light on it, we must first understand the difference between surrender and submission. ⁣
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Surrender is letting go and allowing fate or chance to take over. ⁣
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Submission is letting go and allowing another person to take over. ⁣
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I surrender to the universe…⁣
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…but I submit to only you. ⁣
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When you surrender, another person does not make a difference. ⁣
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When you submit, the other person makes all the difference. ⁣
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📸 & Sh***ri:
Model:

In the fall of 2018, I knew I had to blow up my life. I had just gotten through three years of deep shadow work and personal development. Yet, I had the same job and the same structure in my life as before I had my spiritual awakening. The difference was that I knew there was more to life, and I knew that it was up to me to create it all. ⁣⁣
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I identified my biggest issue which was that the majority of my time was spent at a high stress sales job focused on making money. I tied my worth to my success in my job when the job actually meant nothing to me. I let societies definition of success smother my dreams and my WHY.⁣
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⁣I decided I would leave my job to travel the world with a backpack, Tokyo as my starting point, and no plan or end date. I was done with two week vacations and itineraries. I was a rebel with my life on the line. I wrote down my non-negotiables for next new career:⁣⁣
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I would be in service to others. FULFILLMENT⁣⁣
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I would be my own boss⁣⁣
AUTONOMY⁣⁣
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I would work in beautiful places⁣⁣
CONNECTION TO NATURE⁣⁣
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I would be free to travel⁣⁣
FREEDOM⁣⁣
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I would be able to make limitless money⁣⁣
ABUNDANCE⁣⁣
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I would do something for work that I would gladly do for free⁣⁣
JOY⁣⁣
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Ta**ra was already birthed inside of me years ago but I ignored it because I didn’t know then what I know now. ⁣⁣
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I SET THE RULES TO THIS GAME. NO ONE ELSE. ⁣⁣
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Now, I help people experience healing and freedom each day, owning my company, working in a beautiful Ta**ra temple and festivals and retreats, making more than enough money, all while doing something I would gladly do for free. ⁣⁣
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All I had to do was access my heart and let out that little rebel who knew exactly what he wanted and wouldn’t take no for an answer. ⁣
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One book that helped me become the rebel archetype was Think On These Things by Krishnamurti. Give it a read, and reach out to me about getting support in your journey. ⁣
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The most difficult part of the journey is the time between when you know that you are the only one stopping yourself and when you actually get off your ass and do something about it. You know. The clock is ticking.

We all have insecurities. They can be found in our bodies or in our negative self-talk. They can prevent us from creating amazing things in our lives and they can poison our relationships. ⁣⁣
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Insecurities are lies that we told ourself for far too long.⁣⁣
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One way to release insecurities will also create deep intimacy in your relationship. ⁣⁣
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Share your insecurities with your partner. ⁣⁣
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Sharing insecurities requires vulnerability.⁣⁣
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The word vulnerability comes from the Latin word vulnerare, which means “to wound.” ⁣⁣
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When you share vulnerably, someone could pour salt in the wound or they could help you heal it.⁣⁣
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It can be scary. ⁣⁣
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It may make you question, Do I really want to be seen?”⁣⁣
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Why risk it?⁣⁣
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The reward is far greater than the risk. ⁣⁣
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If your partner doesn’t support you, then maybe they aren’t the partner for you.⁣
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⁣If they do, then connection, intimacy, and healing is your prize. ⁣⁣
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VULNERABILITY IS THE PREREQUISITE TO INTIMACY⁣⁣
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The depths of intimacy you share with your partner can only go as far as you are willing to be vulnerable. ⁣
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Hide your fears and insecurities and you may be burying your chance at a deep, emotionally connected, and expansive partnership. ⁣
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Many confuse vulnerability with weakness, when in reality it displays tremendous strength. ⁣⁣
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So how do you do it?⁣⁣
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Create a container of safety before you jump into the conversation by making sure its the appropriate time and place and that your partner is open to having a vulnerable talk. Then, let them know that:⁣
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1. It’s important. ⁣⁣
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2. It’s sensitive and vulnerable for you. ⁣⁣
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3. How they can best support you after you share. ⁣⁣
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You will be empowered through this process. Your partner will be empowered by holding space for you and responding lovingly thanks to you clearly communicating your needs. ⁣Perhaps they will share some insecurities or fears with you after. Enjoy the intimacy that follows!⁣
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For a deeper dive into intimacy with your partner, ask me about Couples Ta**ra Coaching and Ta**ra Massage Sessions, virtual or in-person.

How often do you see the beauty in someone that they can’t seem to see themself?⁣⁣
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It’s heartbreaking to observe how many women I work with or interact with in my daily life that think there is something wrong with how they look. ⁣⁣
It’s a terrible byproduct of our society and it’s warped values. ⁣⁣
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But it is real and it is disempowering the very women we need to create the new earth we all desire. ⁣⁣
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I teach how important it is to love and accept yourself because even if you would like to change, you will be able to do it in ease if you accept the way that you are right now. ⁣⁣
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When all your energy is used to be in resistance to the way things are, how will you harness the energy to create new possibilities?⁣⁣
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This is never more apparent than with body image. ⁣⁣
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Call it universal law, or call it a life hack, if you want to change/improve/grow, first know that you are perfect.
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There is no perfect body of yours in the eyes of anyone but your own. ⁣⁣
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There is no one way anyone should be, but there is a deep beauty in loving yourself exactly as you are. ⁣⁣
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Your love for yourself and your body will emanate out exponentially compared to what anyone else may think or say about you. ⁣⁣
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That is your power. ⁣⁣
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There is a perfection in knowing you are perfect, and from that point you open the door to limitless possibilities.