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Life lately ✨✨✨🧚‍♀️💆‍♀️🦋

My word for 2026 - REJOICE.

To be so FULL of Him that joy is the natural byproduct. 🍯

This smile, this light, and the woman I am today are because I decided to leave the way of the world behind and say no to living bound by fear and all the lies that fear produces.

Six years ago, I said no more.

No more believing I wasn’t worthy of love.
No more believing I wasn’t chosen.
No more believing I had to work, earn, and strive to be loved.

Everything changed when I took a chance on believing what God says about me.

That I am loved and always have been.
That I am His precious daughter.
That I am never alone; He is always with me.
That He will deliver on His promises to me, and that He has plans to prosper me. 🕊🕊

He did His most precious work in me.

I am filled with Him.

And overflowing with His joy.

“Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice.”

Forever grateful for this life and the love I’ve been blessed with. 💕💆‍♀️💖

What's your word for 2026?

Let me know below.

Xo

Vane

A love note to all my Type A babes 🌀🧚‍♀️

It’s all good… until your health is falling apart,
your kids are carrying anxiety, and your man feels a million miles away.

What you don’t face and heal in this lifetime, you pass down to your children and the generations after you.

Your high-functioning personality will only take you so far before it silently starts to cost you everything.

I know... because I was there.

I was a highly sensitive woman without the tools to deal with what I was feeling, so I worked harder.

Achieved more.
Succeeded.
Earned love.

And what did it give me?

‼️ Daily, debilitating anxiety.

🥶 A body filled with pain and tension.

😪 A nervous system stuck in survival.

I did everything on my own.

Never asked for help.
Suffered silently.

Until my relationships started to fall apart.

I was controlling.
Mistrusting.
Closed.
Exhausted.

It wasn’t until I learned how to slow down
and actually sit with myself that things began to change. 💓

Not by doing more... but by learning how to feel, rest, soften, and regulate. 🤌

This is why I do this work.

Because high-functioning women don’t need more discipline.

They need PERMISSION. 🍯

Support.

And the right guidance to stop living in energetic survival.

If this spoke to you, if you see yourself here, & if you’re ready to make long lasting change so that your children can see what a happy, healthy and trusting woman looks like.

DM me the word “FULFILLMENT.”

Let’s have an honest conversation.

Just clarity, truth, and support.

You don’t have to keep doing this the hard way.

XO

Vane

This Bible verse changed the game for me 🧚‍♀️🔥💋

Stay attuned beauties.

Do the inner work to unravel the years of pain that's hardened you.

It's going to change your life just like it did mine.

Your heart is PRECIOUS.

Love her
Care for her.
Invest in her.

You wont ever regret it.

Xo

Vane

What if I told you the most painful heartbreak of my life wasn’t really about a man?

It was actually how I violated myself while trying to keep him. 😪

I stayed in situations that left me anxious and tight in my chest.

I reread texts, replayed tone, questioned myself instead of questioning the situation.

I felt the inconsistencies.
The confusion.
The part of me that didn’t feel safe and I stayed anyway.

I told myself I was being patient.

I told myself I was being understanding.

I told myself love requires sacrifice.

What I didn’t tell myself was the truth:

I was abandoning myself to keep the connection.

I ignored the first red flag.

Then I explained away the second.

Then I normalized the third.

I made excuses for behavior that hurt me.

I softened my needs so I wouldn’t be “too much.”

I accepted less than I wanted because I was afraid of losing him.

And every time I did that, something in me went dead.

I thought losing him was the heartbreak.

It wasn’t.

The heartbreak was realizing I didn’t protect myself.

I didn’t listen to myself.
I didn’t choose myself.
I broke my own trust... repeatedly.

That’s the part no one talks about.

So here’s what changed:

I stopped overriding the feeling in my body.

I stopped negotiating my standards to stay chosen. 💋

I stopped confusing anxiety for chemistry.

I stopped abandoning myself for connection. 🧚‍♀️

I learned how to stay with myself even when it meant being alone. ✨️

I learned how to choose from clarity instead of fear.

I learned how to let my inner knowing lead.

That’s when my relationships changed.

Because I changed. 🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️

Heartbreak wasn’t the punishment.
It was the wake-up call. 🌀

And now I help women stop repeating the same quiet yet disruptive self-betrayals that keep them stuck in the same patterns.

If you’re ready to stop abandoning yourself in love
and turn heartbreak into your greatest Homecoming.

DM me PURIFY to apply. One spot open for my 6 month private mentorship. 💓

Xo

Vane

You’ve heard it all:

“Just focus on yourself.”
“Practice more self-love.”
“Do more self-care.”
“Be confident and the right man will come.”

But no one tells you what that actually means in your body and daily life.

Because self-love isn’t bubble baths.

And self-care isn’t pretending you’re fine.

You’re not exhausted because you’re weak.

You’re exhausted because you’ve been overriding your heart for years.

Inside my private mentorship, women realize this quickly.

One client came to me heartbroken, anxious, and emotionally spent.

She looked put together on the outside but internally she was constantly bracing.

She didn’t know how to:

• Rest without guilt
• Feel her emotions without shutting down
• Say “that doesn’t work for me” without panic
• Trust herself when something felt off
• Stop abandoning herself to keep love

So we didn’t work on attracting a man.

We worked on how she treated herself.

We slowed her nervous system.

Taught her how to stay present with grief instead of suppressing it.

Helped her feel safe telling the truth... even when it risked losing someone.

Rebuilt her faith so she could release control and stop chasing reassurance.

That’s when everything changed.
She became calm. Grounded. Clear.

Not because life became perfect but because she stopped negotiating with her own heart. ❤️💓❤️💓

Now, she chooses relationships from peace instead of fear. 🧚‍♀️

She rests without explaining herself.
She listens to her body.
She trusts God more than her anxiety.

This woman isn't a special case.

She just learned how to care for themselves at the deepest level. 🍯🍯

You want to feel at home in your body.
You want to stop overthinking everything.
You want love but not at the cost of yourself.

If nothing changes, you already know what happens.

Another year of pushing through.

Another year of emotional exhaustion disguised as strength.

Another year of calling survival “self-love.”

If you’re reading this and thinking “this is me” it’s not by accident.

You don’t lack discipline.

You lack the inner safety and faith to slow down and actually choose yourself.

I have 1 spot open for private mentorship.

DM PURIFY to apply.

Xo

Vane

2026 vibes ✨️ Working on our heart and soul care.

Remove your focus off of the outer.

Recenter & refocus your gaze within and above.

Xo

Vane