09/24/2026
On Monday during class, one of my students expressed concerns about attending today's Career Fair. Without going into great detail, her concern was that she'd be judged based on the 'type of clothes' she wears, and her overall facial appearance. As I tried to calm her nerves and give her some advice on some possible things to wear, I was quickly made aware that her concerns were way much deeper. In her own words, she says to me..."I like girls." And from there, the conversation went into how she has felt judged many times by others on campus. She talked about the awkward looks she has gotten, even sharing how people talk differently to her. I again tried to calm her nerves, definitely empathizing with her. I even shared with her examples of the many times I've been judged, in so many different ways, by so many people. Although I think I helped her some, I was still very worried about her overall mindset as class ended.
I looked for her today at the Career Fair, but didn't see her. Well, what do you know. I just received a photo from her at the Career Fair. Like the saying goes, if a picture was worth a thousand words. Wow! Her smile! Her glow!!
Now that's the way to end the day!! ๐