Pablo J. Rosario

Are You Urgent Or Just Being Desperate?

One is fueled by fear and the other is is fueled by intention and excitement.

When it comes to your goals which are you working with?

Single and Struggling?
Change the Story You Tell Yourself 

If you keep saying, "This is just who I am. Maybe I'm meant to be single." then that story that you've told over and over will become your reality.

Change your story.

Pick a story that explains your situation in a way that actually empowers you. Ask yourself..."In what other situation could this be a good thing?"

What kinds of stories have you been telling yourself? Let me know below.

The Real Purpose of Flirting: Enjoying the Moment

Flirting isn't about getting a phone number or approval or anything like that.

It's about genuinely enjoying the fun back-and-forth. The teasing. The giving each other s**t. That is where the fun is. That's what makes it work.

When you flirt, are you trying to get something, or just make the moment more fun?

What Every Guy Tells Himself When He Gets in a Relationship 

Trying to keep your partner, happy by never rocking the boat actually the thing that pushes them away.

People don't want a yes man. They want someone with preferences, opinions, and a backbone. That person they feel safe with, that person they know they could count on.

Let me know...does staying quiet to keep the peace work in relationships?

3 Reasons Storytelling Makes You More Attractive as a Man

1. Stories make people feel something.

2. Stories help you share things about yourself without having to say them.

2. Stories provide value by entertaining and inspiring others.

Does being able to tell a good story making a man more attractive? Let me know in the comments.

You don't need to be more confident. You need to be more you.

There is a version of yourself before the world told you no, before you start to doubt yourself and shrink down.

That version of yourself is actually the best version of yourself because that is when you were your most authentic and your most free.

Confidence doesn't get hurt to like you. It's being OK if she doesn't.

That detachment creates this non-needy energy around that makes people feel comfortable around you and want to be around you more.

Just something to think about next time you're out.



Understanding Why You're Impatience in Dating

Most men rush to get the kiss or rush to get a date. If you dig deep enough, you'll see that is not because they are excited, it is because they are trying to quiet down their desperation.

Having the awareness between the two is a difference between letting things develop naturally and coming off as thirsty and needy.

Most guys don't know the difference. Do you?

You Are Not Defined by What Happened to You, But by the Story You Tell Yourself

You are not defined by what happened to you, but by the story you tell yourself afterwards.

Most men get rejected or have a bad social interaction and then tell themselves a story that they are not attractive or broken. But there are men who go through the same thing and believe something different about themselves.

That's because the events were never the deciding factor—the story they told themselves was.

Notice the stories you tell yourself and get in the habit of questioning it. That's how you win.

Do you think we are defined by our stories or something else?

If You Want to Get Better At Flirting, Do THIS

Flirting it's not about getting anywhere or getting anything. It's about enjoying the moment and making it better without wanting anything after that.

The way you do that is by making flirting itself the goal, not a means to get somewhere.

I know it's tough, but it's one of those paradoxical things where if you don't want anything, that's what makes it better and you end up getting more than you hope for.



Authenticity