Between A&B

The month of May has been personally a month of stretching and growth for me. As I’ve been spending time in the secret place, the Lord has been speaking to me about the months of May, June and July being months of preparation.

If you are finding yourself in a season of transition and change, take heart Jesus is with you!

Be encouraged and take heart ❤️
God is moving in significant ways, he’s preparing our hearts to be vessels of his presence.

Today we pray that the Holy Spirit will give you eyes to see what he’s doing and wants to do through you ✨

Today we want to share with you some 🔑🔑🔑 to overcoming compassion and getting freedom in this critical area of our lives.

✨ Comparison is not new. As we studied the word in preparation for this post, we were overwhelmed with the amount of verses that pertain to this topic.

✨We believe that God’s heart is to set us totally free from this area of our lives and for us to live a lifestyle of honor and cultivate true esteem for others.

✨ We are praying for you, that you may encounter God’s BREAKTHROUGH in this area of your life.

Ben & Ale

Many of us struggle to really feel God’s love and trust that he has good plans for our lives. As a result, we often try to work to earn God’s love and acceptance, or to feel secure in our lives through our own merits. This often times bleeds out into other areas of our lives and can disrupt or limit our peace and confidence.

💡Today we want you to take courage and allow God to set you free from the performance mindset

💡It is common to start the year with some sort of detox, but what if we allow God to detox us for good from the performance mindset?

💡If we had no fear and walked in the full rest of knowing that we are unconditionally loved and accepted who would we be?

💡If any of this resonates and you’d like someone to walk alongside you as you go deeper, please send us a DM and we can share more with you about getting a coaching or an inner healing session.

💡We are praying that this year will be a year of total freedom and healing.

Happy New Year ✨

As we enter into a new year we’ve heard some prophetic insight and encouragement from Jesus.

We pray that this will be encouraging to you and that the voice of Jesus will speak to you and give you clarity as you enter into a new year.

-Ale & Ben

Hola and happy Monday! It’s a new year, and we believe that it’s the perfect time to take your relationships to the next level! That being said, we want to invite you to our very first Between A&B Bootcamp. This one-day, online intensive is jam packed with interactive content that will lead you in practical steps towards redefining how you relate to yourself, God, and the world around you. Join us on February 5th from 10am-4pm as we explore topics like healthy communication, handling triggers, healing from shame, and more.

Check out the link in our bio to sign up. We can’t wait to keep journeying with you this year!

It's a new year, and it's time to take your relationships to the next level. This one-day, online intensive is jam packed with interactive content that will lead you in practical steps towards redefining how you relate to yourself, God, and the world around you.

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/between-ab-bootcamp-relationships-tickets-243076306777

It's a new year, and it's time to take your relationships to the next level. This one-day, online intensive is jam packed with interactive content that will lead you in practical steps towards redefining how you relate to yourself, God, and the world around you.

TOPICS:
Foundations for Relational Health
Foundations for Healthy Communication
Conflict Resolution
Responding to Triggers
A Path Towards a Trigger-free Life
Healing from Past Shame
Q&A

Join us on Saturday, February 5th from 10am-4pm as we pursue healthy hearts and relationships together.

Cost: $100

Thing we now practice (part V):

We create a culture of celebration in our home. We believe in the value of honoring even the smallest victories.

During the "date nights" that we have each week, we celebrate our little accomplishments and honor each other for hard work, even if the results are not manifested yet. We prioritize celebrating one another, even when one of us may not be thriving. There have been moments where Ale has celebrated my ( ) work victories amidst the reality that her job was emotionally toxic. We have found that when people compete and compare with one another, it causes distress in their relationships. The act of celebrating and honoring the other person will almost always disempower jealousy and comparison.

We also intentionally celebrate birthdays to the max. I () struggled for many years with the concept of being alive, so investing in my birthday is a way that I commemorate that I am alive. We also help the people in our community to celebrate important occasions in their lives such as engagements, birthdays, promotions, or even just a visit from out of town. Through celebration, we are able to practically choose joy. Even in the moments when celebration has cost us financially or emotionally, we still celebrate in spite of lack or circumstantial uncertainty.

This core value also helps us to connect with the reality of God being on our side. When things get really hard for us, we have a "feast before our enemies." This is where we cook up a storm, light the candles, and celebrate in the face of a major unresolved challenge. Our inspiration for this comes from Psalm 23:

You prepare a table before me
    in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
    my cup overflows.
Surely your goodness and love will follow me
    all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the Lord
    forever.

We encourage you to have a feast! Whether that is going to get your favorite coffee an hour before work, or having a special meal, set time aside to intentionally position your heart above the despair, remember that God is with you, and take on a posture of expectation of good things to come.

Hola! Welcome to our page!

We truly believe that you can thrive whether you are at Point A, Point B, or somewhere in between. Follow along with us this season as we dive into topics like honest communication, relationships, jealousy, compassion, and more. It is our hope that we can come alongside you wherever you are in your journey, and that you will experience living in freedom no matter the season you are in.
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The Heart of the Matter

We believe that every season or experience we walk through has something waiting for us— opportunities to grow, hurts that need healing, or preparation for something up ahead. But sometimes, we get so caught up in trying to get from Point A to Point B that we end up rushing past our own story, and what it may be trying to teach us.

Through our experiences both together and apart, we have learned that the moments in between A & B have the power to shape us if we let them. It is our hope that we can come alongside you wherever you are in your journey and help you experience living in freedom no matter the season you are in. With practical tools, curated curriculum, individualized coaching, and a whole lot of love, we believe that you can thrive whether you are at Point A, Point B, or somewhere in between.