10/06/2026
Nobody tells you that you can outgrow your own life.
Nothing is wrong, exactly. You know who you've been, you know it doesn't fit anymore, and you don't have a name yet for who you're turning into, so you keep answering to the old one.
You've probably understood all of this already, in a workshop or halfway through a book at two in the morning. You can think your way right up to the edge of what comes next... and then you have to walk the rest of the way.
For ten years I trained with don Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements, and Teotihuacán is where I finally stopped performing my own life. In less than four weeks I'm taking a small group there for Día de los Mu***os, when the village beside the pyramids sets out food for its dead, lights candles for them and says their names out loud. A week that close to death makes it very hard to keep pretending.
You'll choose marigolds at the market and lay them into a path, climb down into ancient underground chambers that very few visitors ever enter, and walk the Avenue of the Dead in the golden late-afternoon light. And when the village parade begins, you'll walk in it wearing a painted face you chose yourself.
Then one ordinary day back home, the phone rings with the same old request, and you hear yourself say what you actually want.
What are you ready to stop repeating while you are still alive?
"Since returning, I move with more trust, confidence, and ease, even when I don't know how things will unfold." ~ Celeste P., Teo 2023
We gather on October 28 at a small family-run posada with only so many rooms, and just a few spots are left. If you'd like to join us, the link to save your spot is in the first comment.
P.S. Does death frighten you? Or the life you are still postponing?
Info and links in the comments