Alyssa Esparza Herrmann

Alyssa Esparza Herrmann Life Coach + I Open The Portals To Transformation And Help You Claim All That Is Yours by Divine Law šŸ¦‹

09/24/2026

Attention: Coaches and those seeking ā¬‡ļø

The coaching industry is being exposed and for good reason…

It seems like everyone is a ā€œcoachā€ these days… they’ve read some books, listened to some podcasts, solely use AI, hire a business mentor and BOOM šŸ’„ you’re a ā€œcoach.ā€

Technically anyone CAN call themselves a coach but not everyone is equipped to hold another human being through the depth of what can come up in this work.

As someone who has been in this world for 6 years, it’s honestly heartbreaking to watch.

Women are investing thousands of dollars, opening up some of the most vulnerable parts of themselves, trusting someone to guide them… and that trust is being broken.

And I’m pi**ed for them!

I remember back in my health coaching days, I started realizing that what women were bringing me had very little to do with ā€œfood.ā€

There was real life s**t. Trauma. Nervous system dysregulation. Deeply rooted patterns. Things I simply was NOT equipped (at the time) to hold at the depth they deserved.

And instead of pretending I knew more than I did, I stopped. I went back. I got trained.
I took my certifications deeper. I learned where my scope ended and when someone needed support beyond what I could provide.

Passion to help others is so beautiful BUT it’s NOT ENOUGH!!!

when they’re placing their trust, their story, their body, their relationship, their healing, their dreams in your hands—that deserves reverence.

You wouldn’t go on a cross country road trip without fuel, water, or a working engine and call yourself prepared just because you know the destination.

The same applies here.

And to the woman looking for a coach, mentor, healer, facilitator, whatever:

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09/17/2026

But what would it feel like if YOU were held for once?

If you didn’t always have to be the strong one?
The capable one?
The one who figures it out?
The one carrying everyone else?

What would it feel like to have a space where you could finally put some of it down?

Where you didn’t have to perform, produce, achieve or hold it all together.

Where you could come back into your body.
Hear yourself again.
Remember what you need.
Let yourself receive.
And be supported as you become the woman underneath all the armor.

That’s why I created The Feminine Compass.

The Feminine Compass is my 12-week feminine embodiment experience for the high-achieving woman who is done abandoning herself and ready to feel safe in her body, trust her own truth, and build a life and relationships that actually honor who she is. ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„

You don’t need another place to prove how capable you are.

You need somewhere you get to be held while you learn how to hold yourself differently. šŸ¤²šŸ¼

Enrollment for TFC is open now— we start Oct. 14th

Comment COMPASS and I’ll send you all the details. ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„

09/10/2026

The only mantra you need when in Luteal — can I get an AMEN below ā¬‡ļø

5 year reflection. (The last slide sent me 😭). —Marriage has a whole new meaning as I woke up yesterday on year five of ...
09/08/2026

5 year reflection. (The last slide sent me 😭).
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Marriage has a whole new meaning as I woke up yesterday on year five of marriage (9.5 years into our partnership).

For better, for worse.
For richer, for poorer.
In sickness and in health.
To love and to cherish…

When you say those words on your wedding day, you have no idea what they’re actually going to ask of youšŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø.

We rewatched our wedding video yesterday and both bawled our eyes out because we walked through a wildfire to get here.

In five years of marriage, we’ve walked through the death of a parent, addiction, broken trust, literally zero dollars in our bank account, separation, grief, and the unraveling of who we thought we were.

There was a time I genuinely didn’t know if we would make it.

And yet, sitting beside him yesterday morning watching these two younger versions of ourselves promise forever, I realized… I have never felt more like his wife than I do now…

Marriage has pushed every edge in me. It has mirrored parts of myself I didn’t want to see. It has asked me to confront where I abandoned myself, where I tried to control, where I needed to stand the f**k up for myself, and where love was asking me to become something deeper.

And then I heard the vows I wrote five years ago, ā€œLove is trusting in the unfolding of anotherā€¦ā€Whoa. 🤯 I swear my higher self must have taken my hand and written those words because I had no idea how much I would eventually be asked to live them.

I don’t believe the deepest love is the love that never breaks. Sometimes it’s the love willing to tell the TRUTH about what broke.

To walk through the fire.
To let old versions of the relationship die.
And to consciously choose whether you want to build something new from what remains.

We did not live happily ever after, thank God. Honestly because TRUTH is where you meet the depth and intimacy you both ACTUALLY desire. Raw. Imperfect. Sovereign.

And we’re still rebuilding. Still learning one another. Still learning ourselves.

Five years ago, I promised to love and cherish this man…I DO over and over.

I love you Satch ā¤ļø. Happy anniversary. Hallelujah

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