04/18/2023
Do you value yourself?
For most of us, the immediate response would be, "Yes, of course, I do!"
But do you really?
Too many times, without realizing it, you devalue yourself. This is especially true if you are dealing with failed relationships, continuing to work at a job that is unfulfilling and unsatisfying, or trying to live up to the expectations of others and not following your own path.
You might start thinking things like, "What's wrong with me that this person would leave me", "I hate this job, but I am not qualified to do anything else", or "Why can't I live up to this person's standards". You might even begin to say these things aloud to yourself and others, and your subconscious mind takes note of all of it.
Without even realizing it, you become your own worst critic. You begin to devalue yourself and it shows in your appearance and demeanor. And, before you know it, other people devalue you. They think it's ok to disrespect you because you continually disrespect yourself.
I know because I have been there. I have had those thoughts and I have said those words.
But you can put a stop to this, and you can start doing it NOW!
Start by getting up and looking into a mirror. Tell yourself that the person you are looking at is unique, one of a kind, and worthy of love and respect.
If there are people who reject you, it has nothing to do with who you are and everything to do with who they are!
Work each day to become the BEST version of yourself, by taking pride in your appearance, walking with confidence, and finding ways to learn and grow as an individual.
And, if there are still those who fail to see your value, WALK AWAY! Never beg to be a part of a person's life when they cannot see your worth. I promise you will eventually find that you are much better off without these people in your life, and you will be much happier as well.
If you need any help, please contact me and we will start your transformation immediately!
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Remember, if you don't value yourself, you can't expect anyone else to.