Thrive Together Child & Family Therapy

I’m pleased to share that I will be speaking in person this Friday in Hermosa Beach—I'd love for you to join me.

LB-SB CAMFT - Blended Behavioral Approaches for Neurodivergent Children

Just heard your 4-year-old might be autistic? Before the worry sets in — read this. Your child has real, incredible strengths that show up as early as age four, and this guide will help you see them.

Understanding Your Autistic 4-Year-Old's Strengths Discover the hidden strengths of autism in 4-year-olds. A warm, practical guide for parents navigating an early autism diagnosis with hope.

Tired of feeling like all you do is correct your child? Learn how one simple behavioral strategy can help you criticize less and connect more during the years that shape who they become.

Criticize Your Child Less With Differential Reinforcement | Mattering Learn how differential reinforcement of alternative behaviors and Gordon Flett's psychology of mattering can help you criticize less and connect more with your child.

I've just reached 700 followers! Thank you for continuing support. I could never have made it without each one of you. 🙏🤗🎉

🗣️Join me on Saturday at 11am on IG Live for a chat about parental guilt and shame. I’ll be covering:

1. The difference between guilt and shame.

2. Practical suggestion to make that guilt productive.

And more!

🎁 thank you to for hosting the IG Live.

💔 The death of a loved one is a difficult experience for anyone, but it can be especially challenging for children who may not understand or be able to express their emotions as well as adults. In this article for PBS Parents, I offer tips on how parents can help their children cope with the loss of a loved one, such as being honest and open with them about death, creating a safe and supportive environment for them to grieve, and offering practical ways for them to honor the memory of the person who has passed. Additionally, parents are encouraged to seek support for themselves so they can be better equipped to help their children through the grieving process.

You can read the full article by visiting PBS Parents.org.

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The death of a loved one is a difficult experience for anyone, but it can be especially challenging for children who may not understand or be able to express their emotions as well as adults. In this article for PBS Parents, I offer tips on how parents can help their children cope with the loss of a loved one, such as being honest and open with them about death, creating a safe and supportive environment for them to grieve, and offering practical ways for them to honor the memory of the person who has passed. Additionally, parents are encouraged to seek support for themselves so they can be better equipped to help their children through the grieving process.

How to Help Your Child When a Loved One Dies | Parenting Tips & Advice When someone important to you dies, it can be difficult to talk about. Here are four key things to help you support your child when something sad happens.

🤪 One morning I was huffing and puffing about how I needed more time in the morning to get myself and my kids ready for the day. It was time for me to pull my support away and put a system in place that would increase her independence with the morning and evening routine.

+ Don’t get hung up on how the visual looks. Mine never look great. Grab a paper and markers and draw it out! What it does need is personalization and knowing what your child is motivated for.
 
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+If you want the video link of me talking about the visuals in detail, DM or comment me ”more time.”

Disclaimer: the information posted on .toddler is for educational purposes only. It is not intended to replace assessment, diagnosis, or treatment for any mental health conditions. Please consult your local medical professional for assistance related to your or your child’s mental health.

❓Today I’m answering a question that came in the DM about tantrums and when little ones hit themselves.

👋Hi, I’m Michelle Tangeman, a mom of two, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Follow .toddler for more brain based, scientifically supported parenting.
 
Share with me in the comments with a “yes” I’ve struggled with this.
 

 
🚨Disclaimer: the information posted on .toddler is for educational purposes only. It is not intended to replace assessment, diagnosis, or treatment for any mental health conditions. Please consult your local medical professional for assistance related to your or your child’s mental health.

We undergo a significant change in perspective, when we come to realize that our anger is not directed towards the external situation, but rather toward something occurring in our inner world 🤯.

How does this post sit with you?

We’ve all been there. There is a big shift when you realize that the thing you are angry about isn’t what you are really angry about 🤯 Your anger is a sign or a message from your inner world. Take a moment to reflect and see what comes to the surface the next time anger appears.