05/20/2026
Real connection isn’t about saying the right thing or fixing the other person. It starts with being willing to feel what’s happening inside you and not run from it. Emotional responsibility is the foundation of every relationship worth having.
05/19/2026
If you’ve ever been told your depression was a “lack of faith,” or that your boundary-setting was “rebellion,” this episode is for you.
In this powerful episode of the Unholier Podcast, we sit down with therapist and author Ann Russo to unpack the deep, often invisible scars of religious trauma. Far from just being “dramatic,” religious trauma is a calculated form of conditioning. High-control belief systems are systematically designed to override your identity, value obedience over intuition, and frame legitimate mental health struggles as spiritual failures.
Ann breaks down why religious trauma is an ongoing system rather than a single event, and how it manifests as nervous system dysregulation, chronic self-doubt, and fractured relationships. We also dive into the dark side of high-control churches—including how they weaponize mental health by labeling trauma responses as “demonic” to maintain control.
But healing is possible. Anne introduces her groundbreaking Religious Trauma Treatment Model (RTTM), a structured approach focused on somatic healing, nervous system regulation, and rebuilding your autonomy on your own terms. Whether you choose to stay, leave, or rebuild your faith entirely, this conversation offers practical steps to reclaim your boundaries and honor your evolving self.
✨ About Our Guest:
Ann Russo is a licensed therapist, author, and creator of the Religious Trauma Treatment Model (RTTM), dedicated to helping survivors heal from high-control environments and reclaim their autonomy.
05/19/2026
If you’ve ever been told your depression was a "lack of faith," or that your boundary-setting was "rebellion," this episode is for you.
In this powerful episode of the Unholier Podcast, we sit down with therapist and author Ann Russo to unpack the deep, often invisible scars of religious trauma. Far from just being "dramatic," religious trauma is a calculated form of conditioning. High-control belief systems are systematically designed to override your identity, value obedience over intuition, and frame legitimate mental health struggles as spiritual failures.
Ann breaks down why religious trauma is an ongoing system rather than a single event, and how it manifests as nervous system dysregulation, chronic self-doubt, and fractured relationships. We also dive into the dark side of high-control churches—including how they weaponize mental health by labeling trauma responses as "demonic" to maintain control.
But healing is possible. Anne introduces her groundbreaking Religious Trauma Treatment Model (RTTM), a structured approach focused on somatic healing, nervous system regulation, and rebuilding your autonomy on your own terms. Whether you choose to stay, leave, or rebuild your faith entirely, this conversation offers practical steps to reclaim your boundaries and honor your evolving self.
✨ About Our Guest:
Ann Russo is a licensed therapist, author, and creator of the Religious Trauma Treatment Model (RTTM), dedicated to helping survivors heal from high-control environments and reclaim their autonomy.
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Why Your Church Called Your Anxiety "Demonic" (And Why They Lied) Ann Russo
Podcast Episode · Un-holier Than Thou Podcast · May 19 · 1h 4m
05/19/2026
What you were taught to believe about yourself isn't the same as the truth about yourself.
Religious trauma leaves behind more than doubt. It leaves behind a version of you shaped by fear, shame, and the constant threat of belonging being taken away.
You are allowed to examine that version. You are allowed to put it down.
If you're in California and you're ready to do that work, we're here.
Sliding scale available. Link in bio.
05/17/2026
Connection doesn't just happen. It's built, slowly, through the willingness to stay present with yourself and with the people you care about. If that feels hard right now, you're not broken. You might just need some support getting there.
05/16/2026
Pride is protest, embodiment, community, and the right to exist expansively without apology. As a q***r therapist, I think there is something deeply healing about being witnessed fully and still choosing each other anyway. Happy Pride, ***soflongbeach ***s ***r
05/09/2026
It's almost here.
Healing Religious Trauma is a clinical guide for therapists who are ready to do this work with intention, precision, and real tools.
This book is the result of two decades of practice, research, and sitting with people who were hurt in the name of something holy.
Therapists — this one's for you.
Published by PESI. Coming soon.