07/16/2019
Don’t let haters get you. They are all around. They can’t dash your dreams. If your dream is stronger than their hate it will only sting for a second. Let it sting. You have to be open. I challenge you to stay open, let it sting and then walk ten feet away. If your dream is stronger than their hate - your dream will inflate (again) momentarily. That is our hope - to those of us that have a Dream. Martin Luther King called it a dream. Some people call it a wish. Some people call it winning. Call these people your people. All of a sudden the pool will get a lot bigger and your friends will appear like a field of continuous flowers sprouting. Now you’ll have the site to see them. 🌻
07/15/2019
Push past the feelings, beyond the pressure - and the work gets done. You may not know it but tomorrow it will get done a little bit more and then the next day and the next and then you take that energy into other things. It deposits. Said one artist to the world. - Melissa Markowitz - Happy B Day to me
07/12/2019
When someone tells you to just go with the flow - it is one of the most rude things someone can say. Perhaps the person they are telling has no idea what ‘the flow’ is. I think that it is the person who is telling. I think that they are too embarrassed to admit that they didn’t know what the flow was at one point. They assume that everyone else knew but them so now when they share it to protect that time they didn’t know. But gosh they say it with such confidence - ‘Just go with the flow baby!’ Didn’t you not know.. you must have.
Melissa Markowitz
06/30/2019
When you first start making art you will bear your soul and it will be uncomfortable to share it because it is a reflection of yourself that you are attached to. This is why criticism or sharing can be so hard. The real success comes when you can take your story and attach it to a completely different character. This is the point where your art becomes objective. You can write a story about a child, an adult, the elderly, an orphan... you don’t have the be the character to write about it, you just have to be an aspect of it and then expand your audience all while being ok that what you make is not you. You become unattached and become the honorary creator. There is a lot more discussion on this but that is an entirely different conversation that can lead to a book. - Melissa Markowitz