01/28/2026
Our love story ❤️....
Our love story is rooted in purpose, timing and intention.
Both Erik and I came into this season having experienced marriage before. Through those experiences, we gained wisdom and clarity, not in believing we knew everything it takes to make a relationship work, but in becoming very aware of what does not. Through self reflection, personal growth, and inviting the Holy Spirit to continue perfecting us, we became more mindful of what brings out the best in each of us and what it means to build something healthy and lasting.
Our paths first crossed through a brief, candid introduction that was respectful but unassuming. At the time, there was no pursuit, no agenda, and no intention to begin a relationship. We would see one another at church, exchange a simple greeting, and move on. Nothing more.
Time passed........
Through working in ministry together, an opportunity arose that allowed us to have a conversation. What neither of us expected was that this conversation would last for hours. While ministry was part of the discussion, it naturally expanded into our lives, personal journeys, values, and faith. That conversation sparked a genuine desire to get to know one another, not romantically at first, but intentionally and thoughtfully.
From that moment forward, we began scheduling time simply to talk, not to date, but to learn one another. As clarity grew and interest became evident, Erik took a meaningful step by inquiring of my son for permission to get to know me further and more deeply. With that foundation of respect and honor, we chose not to rush into dating, but instead entered into a courtship.
Over the course of months, we spent countless hours talking, sometimes as many as forty hours a week. Often sitting in our vehicles in parking lots, we chose conversation over activity. We did not go on traditional dates or get caught up in distractions. Instead, we were purposeful, intentional, and direct about what we were seeking. We agreed that if at any point compatibility was not present, we would walk away with honesty and grace.
Those hours were spent discussing life, values, spiritual growth, personal development, likes and di