The Christian

INFJ COACH

After having my baby girl by my side every day for a couple of years I realized how every decision I made affected her. I knew the toxic relationship I was in was not good for her to be around. She was all the motivation I needed to finally slam the door on the narcissistic relationship I was stuck in for 5 years. As a single Dad raising my daughter on my own I saw how she picked up on every little thing; my mannerisms, my attitude, my diet, my mood and my...well...everything. I became obsessed with becoming the best Dad I can be. A forever work in progress Dad that is slowly, but surely, heading in the right direction. I studied life, relationships, narcissism, anxiety, depression and Myers-Briggs personality types to be able to give my daughter the best life that I possibly can. I discovered my uniqueness, as I had always known, but things made more and more sense as the years have gone by. I love having the rarest of the 16 different personality types and with my deep and personal understanding of being an INFJ I can fulfill my passion of helping fellow INFJ’s or anyone needing help involving an INFJ. I love being an INFJ Coach and I look forward to helping you reach your life’s goals.

Thanks for giving me a purpose in life as your personal, life and relationship coach.

INFJ Coach

P.S. I am also a victim of being accused of a crime I did not commit. I was framed for a battery by the mother of my triplets who made plans to move out of state and wanted ammunition to do so. I had to fight my battles in court and still continue to do so. I am a father who’s 14 year old triplets are victims of parental alienation from me. My triplets want nothing to do with me and have no just cause to feel such a way. Their mother has kept them from me for 9 straight months for the second time in 2 years and used COVID-19 as an excuse this time around. The judge keeps siding in her favor no matter how many times I take her for contempt. Their excuses for not wanting to see me or video chat with me are because I didn’t buy them diapers when they were little, because I won’t talk about my job with them, because I didn’t buy them an entire meal when I took them out for ice cream at McDonald’s and because their Mom works really hard to support them and take care of them and I don’t. They say I don’t take good care of them when I have them because my cats pooped in my house up in the loft. Their Grandma lied to me and told me they went back to Kansas after I drove 4 hours to see them. The woman who I was in a narcissistic relationship with developed close ties with the mother of my triplets and failed a drug test on purpose which caused me to lose my unsupervised visits because we were living together at the time. The mother of my triplets kept them from me for 9 months for the first time and alienated the kids from me. I also have a toxic family and my my Dad is the most negative and pessimistic person I know. The world revolves around him and he doesn’t respect me at all. My family laughed at me when I told them I wanted to be a counselor. I’ve been wrongfully terminated from a couple of different jobs because of my personality. My most recent love committed su***de. We were not together at the time and hadn’t been for about 2 years, but she messaged me 3 days prior and I chose not to reply because I didn't’ want my emotions toyed with. I wanted a romantic relationship with her and I loved her too much to just be friends. I have regrets because she always told me I knew just what to say and I wasn’t there for her when she needed me the most. I have been through a lot and I want to use my experiences and my dark times to help get you through your rough times and into the light. It’s not always easy, but I can tell you it is worth it. When we are finally in the light we realize we were blessed in the times of darkness and we figure out the reasons as we go along.