Bergen Autism Community Connection -BACC

Hi, I’m Kari.

I work in Business Development for an ABA company in New Jersey, and every day I have the privilege of connecting with incredible professionals, programs, and community resources that support children with autism spectrum and their families.

04/09/2026

03/14/2026

Join us today Wayne Township Community Center from 10 to 1 PM

03/13/2026

Spring Break Open House at ABA Centers of New Jersey
We are opening our doors to families during Spring Break for a special Open House in Hackensack.
If you have a child ages 3–15 with autism, or you have concerns about social skills, communication, sensory challenges, or development, this is a great opportunity to visit our center and learn more.
📅 April 16
⏰ 9:00 AM – 11:30 AM
📍 ABA Centers of New Jersey
3 University Plaza – 5th Floor
Hackensack, NJ
Come:
✔ Tour our therapy rooms
✔ Meet our clinical team
✔ Learn about diagnostic evaluations
✔ Ask questions about ABA therapy
This is a welcoming, no-pressure opportunity to explore resources for your child.
Spots are limited — registration required.
Please scan the QR code on the flyer to sign up.
📞 Questions: 561-484-8584

03/12/2026

When a child is overwhelmed, what they need most is not correction; it’s regulation.

During big emotional moments, a child’s brain shifts into survival mode. The part of the brain responsible for reasoning, problem solving, and listening temporarily goes offline, while the nervous system activates the fight, flight, or freeze response.

In that state, children are not trying to be difficult; their brain is simply focused on safety.

This is why lectures, punishments, or logic rarely work in the middle of a meltdown. The brain has to feel SAFE before it can learn.

This is where our words become incredibly powerful.

Simple phrases like:
“I’m right here with you,”
“You’re safe with me,”
“Let’s take a slow breath together”

send signals of safety to a child’s nervous system.

When children hear calm, supportive language, their body can begin to move out of stress mode and back toward regulation. This process is called co-regulation.

Young children are not born knowing how to regulate their emotions. Their nervous system develops through repeated experiences of being supported by a calm and connected adult.

Over time, these moments shape the brain. They teach children how to understand their emotions, calm their body, and handle stress in healthier ways.

These 12 phrases are simple tools you can use to help children feel safe, supported, and regulated during difficult moments.

Because the calm voice children borrow from us today eventually becomes the calm voice they carry inside themselves. 💕💕