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🌸If you must walk your path alone for a while, do it.🌿Don't abandon yourself for the sake of someone else.🌸You never hav...
08/21/2026

🌸If you must walk your path alone for a while, do it.

🌿Don't abandon yourself for the sake of someone else.

🌸You never have to fight or chase someone for their love and acceptance for you.

🌿Never settle for less than the life that you deeply desire for yourself.

🌸Leave them be, wish them well, and trust that “your people” will find you.

(Learn to say "that's on you." Your behavior is on you. The way you move is on you. The choices you make are all on you. The way you live, it's all on you. Stop absorbing the pain of other people, recognize what belongs to you and what doesn't.-unknown)

Remember, life is a like crossing a creek using stepping stones. Sometimes you slip and have to regain your balance and other times you cross without difficulty.

So when you slip, gain your balance, get up and continue

My reactions are not proof that something is wrong with me.I can be emotional and still be normal.I can make mistakes an...
08/19/2026

My reactions are not proof that something is wrong with me.

I can be emotional and still be normal.

I can make mistakes and still be a good person.

I can recognize where I was wrong without accepting responsibility for things that were never mine.

I can feel something without turning that feeling into an action.

And I can change my mind without needing to rewrite my entire past.

All these things are from growing within

"Life right now sorta sucks!! Can we at least agree on that? Gas prices keep vasilating, food prices are outrageous, peo...
08/12/2026

"Life right now sorta sucks!! Can we at least agree on that? Gas prices keep vasilating, food prices are outrageous, people can't control themselves, respect has been thrown out the window. You get my point?
If life sucks, are you doing anything to change things? Or are you waiting and just seeing how things roll?

Well not me!! I intend to do things each day that could or will change my future. My destiny. To change takes ACTION.

You see, our lives are sculpted on a moment-to-moment basis. Each thought we think, the words we speak, and the actions we take, contribute to the complex quality and character of the universe.
Simply put, a person can't live without making an impact on the world that surrounds us.

Everything we do affects the whole. And not taking action can affect the whole just as much. And when it comes to making the world a better place, what we choose not to do can be just as important as what we choose to do.

For example, when we don't recycle, speak up, vote, or help somebody in immediate need, we deny our soul selves the opportunity to work for positive change. Instead, we are enabling ourselves to continue unchallenged. And day By day if we do the same things of not doing right, our EGO will slip into reverse and gain more momentum each day. By holding the belief that our actions don't make much of a difference, we may find that we often tend to forego opportunities for involvement.

Alternatively, if we see ourselves as important participants in an ever-evolving world, we may feel more inspired to contribute our unique perspective and gifts to a situation.

But one must remember to be somewhat selective about how and where we use our energy. All to often we try to do everything at once and we become scattered. Our energy is then spent like a dead battery. Not every cause or action is appropriate for every person.

When a situation catches our attention, however, and speaks to our heart and soul, it is important that we honor our impulse to help and take the action that feels right for us. It may be offering a kind word to a friend, giving resources to people in need, or just taking responsibility for our own behavior.

Just by doing what we can, when we can, we add positive energy to our world. And sometimes, it may be our one contribution that makes all the difference.

So now its time to choose...Are you an active participant in your personal journey or do you just let things happen?? Comment below and let us know.

XOXO Just Bess

Sometimes we get caught up in the minutia of life.  We put dreams on the back burner.  When we do this, its just not our...
06/21/2026

Sometimes we get caught up in the minutia of life. We put dreams on the back burner. When we do this, its just not our dreams on the back burner, IT TRULY IS US!! Why put yourself behind everything else?

Wanna know how to get the hell out of the mosh pit? The answer is so SIMPLE!!

Set your mindset on YOURSELF!! Self Care includes SELF LOVE. Embrace true self, YOUR SOUL SELF.

So climb that mountain instead of trying to move it!! Hit that target 🎯

If you feel stuck or like your life is a whirlwind and you feel that you have no control ask yourself:

1. Are you clear on what you want?

2. Are you clear on the EXACT steps to take to get you where you want to go?

3. Have you actually written down EXACTLY What you want?

Let me know what your thoughts about yourself by answering these powerful questions!!!

Do you want to know more about how to make these things happen? I can help!

TO SCHEDULE A FREE CLARITY CALL MESSAGE ME!!! I CAN HELP YOU TODAY!!

Why be LIMITED when you can be LIMITLESS!!!!!

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(¸.•´ (¸.•´✨ Love and Light Always ~

I am going on a Quest..33 different things!  Thanks .  Who wants to join me??  Let's break those barriers together ❤️
06/15/2026

I am going on a Quest..33 different things! Thanks . Who wants to join me?? Let's break those barriers together ❤️

I am starting a quest!! You heard me..a QUEST not a Request!  Thanks Tyler WiseStay tuned.  It's one each day for 30 day...
06/15/2026

I am starting a quest!! You heard me..a QUEST not a Request! Thanks Tyler Wise
Stay tuned. It's one each day for 30 days.

What are you making possible this week?
06/01/2026

What are you making possible this week?

Did you know neurodivergent people walk in a different frequency than mundane people? That makes life so much more chall...
05/28/2026

Did you know neurodivergent people walk in a different frequency than mundane people? That makes life so much more challenging for us. I mean think about it. Our bodies are made up of over a 1000 different cell structures that harmonize frequency with each other. Mundanes frequencies are lower and slower than neurodivergent peeps. The higher the frequency the faster the cells have to work to harmonize. Neuro people find life more challenging than mundanes. Our vibe is faster, more vibrant thus our thought process never shuts down.

Today was super challenging for me. As I sit here thinking "You know not to retreat but you did it anyway" And my payment for that was not thinking where my feet were going and I tripped and fell once again. Remembering to always be in the present is hard for me. (I seriously could be a hag on the side of a mountain living in my hag hut)

But knowing he was there for me, if only I would let him in more. We met three months ago and it has changed my vibe, my sparkle and my glimmer. Thanks Joe🥰

So for everyone that had challenging day and or week...this one's for you.

No matter where you are you can always feel the energy around you.  You can call on this energy anytime.  It's light, it...
05/25/2026

No matter where you are you can always feel the energy around you. You can call on this energy anytime. It's light, it ✨️ heals, it sends enlightenment and answers and it's LOVE ❤️

MAY IS MENTAL HEALTH MONTH YOUWhen the pain changes shape.At first, it was confusion. You replayed everything. You quest...
05/05/2026

MAY IS MENTAL HEALTH MONTH
YOU

When the pain changes shape.
At first, it was confusion. You replayed everything. You questioned yourself. You tried to understand what happened, why it happened, and whether there was some version of the story that would make it hurt less.

But then clarity arrived.
You saw the pattern. You saw the denial. You saw who benefited from your silence, who protected the version of events that kept them comfortable, and who was never going to meet you in truth.

And still, something kept hurting.

That is the part people misunderstand.

It is not always closure you are waiting for. It is not always the apology. It is not even always the relationship.

Sometimes what still aches is much deeper than that. It is the fact that something profoundly unfair happened and the world did not correct itself.

No one came back and named it properly. No one restored the moral order. No one said, “This was wrong. This should not have happened to you. You should not have had to carry this alone.”

That absence does something to a person.
It creates a very specific kind of exhaustion. Not confusion. Not longing. A deeper fatigue that comes from carrying truth without shared recognition. From knowing exactly what happened while living in a world that keeps rewarding denial, politeness, image management, and convenient forgetting.

That is why even being “right” can feel empty.
Because the psyche does not only want explanation. It wants restoration. It wants reality to be acknowledged in a way that makes the nervous system feel the world is still governed by some kind of order, some kind of fairness, some kind of meaning.

When that does not happen, the hurt stays open in a different way.
Not because you are obsessive. Not because you are bitter. Because some part of you is still grieving the fact that harm was done and then left unrepaired.

That is not weakness. That is moral injury.
It is the wound that forms when what was true is denied, what was harmful is minimised, and what mattered is never given the weight it deserved.

This is why “just let it go” never lands. Because letting go can feel like letting the lie win. Like letting the people who caused the damage also decide what counted as real.
But healing does not have to mean pretending justice no longer matters.

Sometimes healing is much quieter than that.

Sometimes it is the moment you stop waiting for the people, families, or systems invested in silence to become the source of your restoration. Sometimes it is the moment you stop handing them the role of moral authority over your reality.

You begin to build something steadier inside yourself.
You decide that truth does not become less true because it was denied. You decide that harm does not become smaller because it was never acknowledged. You decide that your nervous system does not have to stay chained to their refusal forever.

That is not forgiveness. It is not approval. It is not pretending.

It is the beginning of ethical independence.

The moment you stop asking the world to correct itself before you allow yourself to live.

And that is why this grief deserves dignity.

Because it was never about being unable to move on. It was about carrying the painful knowledge that what happened should have been made right, and wasn’t.

That is a real loss.

And when you finally name it for what it is, something shifts.

Not because justice arrived the way it should have.

But because their refusal is no longer the final authority over your inner world.

That is not closure.

That is truth becoming solid enough inside you that it no longer needs their permission to exist.

PARENT ALIENATION IS REAL AND IT HURTS


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