03/28/2026
I used to brag about my 401k performance at the water cooler.
'The market's up 15% this year!'
I had no idea I was flying backwards.
It was 2018. I was at a seminar in Birmingham, sitting in a room full of people who actually understood money. The speaker asked a simple question: 'How many of you know your lifetime interest paid?'
Nobody raised their hand.
He then showed us the 34.5%. Not 34.5% rate. 34.5% by volume. Of every dollar earned over a lifetime, the average American pays 34.5 cents to interest.
I didn't believe him. So I did the math that night in my hotel room.
My mortgage. My car. My credit cards. The business line of credit. The equipment financing. The home improvement loan.
I added it all up.
Then I projected it forward.
I was on track to pay $1.8 million in interest over my lifetime. $1.8 million. That was more than I'd contributed to every retirement account combined.
And here's what hurt: I was focused on the 15% return in my 401k while completely ignoring the 34.5% drag on everything else.
Nelson Nash called it 'flying backwards.' You have lift, sure. But you have more drag. Net result? Going nowhere fast.
That night changed everything for me. I stopped asking 'How do I get higher returns?'
I started asking 'How do I stop paying interest to banks and start paying it to myself?'
The answer led me to Infinite Banking.
Have you ever calculated your lifetime interest paid? The number might shock you. But it's the first step to changing it.