The Loft NC

The Loft NC A professional Dungeon and Social Club specializing in educational venues for the kinky minded. A relaxing kink friendly environment.

We offer a kink friendly environment in which to relax and play, have noisy scene time, or a place to get away with freedoms for kink not always available in a hotel. We are located on almost two acres, in a well insulated “Loft” above a garage and private office. The Loft is approximately 1000 square feet with a full kitchen (with all essentials) and bath, equipped with a massage table, St Andrew

s cross, spanking bench, queen size bed, seating area, stereo, and WiFi. There is also a large back deck with chairs. TheLoftNC holds classes every Sunday afternoon on a variety of topics and open forum discussion and education for the kinky minded. Please see our event listings and come join us. Stay tuned for info on upcoming parties and other events as well. TheLoftNC is also a professional dungeon with sessions held by appointment only. For more information visit our website http://www.loftnc.com

New on the blog: Power Dynamics 101: What They Are and Why They Might Already Be in Your Relationship
07/25/2026

New on the blog: Power Dynamics 101: What They Are and Why They Might Already Be in Your Relationship

New to power dynamics? Lady Leigh breaks down what they are, how they show up in everyday relationships, and how to tell healthy exchange from control.

I love helping couples learn and explore to help them grow and expand their relationships. This message just made my da...
07/23/2026

I love helping couples learn and explore to help them grow and expand their relationships. This message just made my day and I wanted to share it.

New on the blog: The Kink Community Has Always Had a Q***r Heart
06/10/2026

New on the blog: The Kink Community Has Always Had a Q***r Heart

The history is real. The overlap is intentional. Lady Leigh on why Pride means something at The LoftNC, and what inclusion looks like when it isn’t just a banner.

Join us tomorrow night for Newbie Night! Newbie Night is The LoftNC's monthly open Q&A event designed specifically for p...
05/06/2026

Join us tomorrow night for Newbie Night!

Newbie Night is The LoftNC's monthly open Q&A event designed specifically for people who are curious about B**M and kink but don't know where to start. Held on the first Thursday of every month at The LoftNC in Gastonia, NC, it's one of the most attended events we host — and for good reason. There is no stupid question here. Ever.

New to kink? Newbie Night at The LoftNC is a monthly Q&A event in Gastonia, NC for the Charlotte metro area. No judgment, no pressure, no open play — just answers.

The next D/s Roundtable is tomorrow night. Power Exchange Doesn't Run on Instinct — It Runs on Conversation
04/29/2026

The next D/s Roundtable is tomorrow night.
Power Exchange Doesn't Run on Instinct — It Runs on Conversation

Dominant and submissive dynamics are among the most misunderstood in B**M — and the most in need of open discussion. Lady Leigh on why The LoftNC created DsRT and what changes when people actually talk about power exchange.

Whether you're planning a private scene, a skill workshop, a group munch, or a presenter event, The LoftNC's space is av...
04/27/2026

Whether you're planning a private scene, a skill workshop, a group munch, or a presenter event, The LoftNC's space is available to rent by the community — for the community.

Private dungeon rentals and venue space for groups, presenters, and community events. Charlotte metro area. Hourly, overnight, and group rates available.

Our Next "Impact Church" Skills Class is this coming Tuesday!
04/26/2026

Our Next "Impact Church" Skills Class is this coming Tuesday!

Welcome to our new Skills Class lovingly named “Impact Church”. This has been a class that we’ve thought of for awhile and now is the time to offer this to…

Next month at - The Relationship Needs Chocolate too: a M/s Perspective of Incorporating Self Care in the DynamicMore I...
04/24/2026

Next month at - The Relationship Needs Chocolate too: a M/s Perspective of Incorporating Self Care in the Dynamic

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Often individuals point to self care as “doing something extra for oneself”. Like a pamper day, or taking a vacation. We often get there with the idea of self care, but end up multi-tasking? Or try to rush through it? We forgot the self-care part.

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