01/12/2026
If your child says ‘I don’t get it’… believe them.
One of the hardest moments for parents is watching their child struggle with something that looks simple.
\You read the instructions and think,
“This makes sense. Why is this so hard for them?”
But here’s what most adults forget:
Your brain has decades of experience filling in gaps automatically.
Your child’s brain doesn’t.
When a student says, “I don’t get it,” they’re usually feeling one of three things:
👉 They missed a small step earlier
👉 They don’t know where to start
👉 They’re afraid of being wrong
And fear shuts learning down fast.
Instead of re-explaining louder or faster, pause and ask:
“Which part feels confusing?”
“Can you show me what you tried?”
“What do you think this question is asking?”
Those questions slow the moment down and give the child control again.
We see this shift constantly.
The child isn’t incapable — they just needed space to think.
Confusion is information. Treat it as a clue, not a problem.