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𝗟𝗲𝘁'𝘀 𝗚𝗲𝘁 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗙𝗼𝗹𝗸𝘀!

𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘧𝘰𝘳?

𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘥𝘦?

The last year has been really rough on my family. We discovered our principles and values come into conflict with an institution that was very dear to us. Due to it we saw no other option but to move and start anew in a new state, doing new work. 😢

😊 I'm thankful to my wife for supporting me in this endeavor and choosing to go back to work to assist in our hasty retreat (so to speak). I'm grateful to her and our six children for being my first testers of The Base Camp Method. It has brought our family closer together and it only took 1 day of doing it before my children begged me to continue. 🎉 🎆

I'm grateful to my mentors who provided the training for me in which I discovered new aspects of my why, and a greater depth and distinction between what I do and who I am. All of this inspired The Base Camp Method a methodology for strengthening families by bringing them closer together.

It works because it covers all aspects of combating those reasons why families generally break up in the first place: financial struggle and growing isolation from one another. 💸 🥺

It is a methodology that brings emotional, mental, and spiritual clarity to our lives so we can change our financial situation through resources, tools, and training, and can bring our families closer together through Basecamp, Exploration, and the Camfire gathering.

I just want to say...thanks for being there through
it all my beautiful family: 𝗞𝗿𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻, 𝗝𝗮𝗺𝗲𝘀, 𝗦𝗲𝗯𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗮𝗻, 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗼𝗱𝗼𝗿𝗲, 𝗔𝗺𝗮𝗱𝗲𝘂𝘀, 𝗘𝗺𝗺𝗮, 𝗘𝗹𝗶𝘇𝗮𝗯𝗲𝘁𝗵. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗺𝘆 𝗦𝗧𝗥𝗢𝗡𝗚 𝗙𝗔𝗠𝗜𝗟𝗬! 𝗜 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂.

👉I believe STRONG FAMILIES must be CREATED AND I believe that STRONG FAMILIES create STRONG FAMILIES.👈

𝘋𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘧𝘶𝘯 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘺?

𝘊𝘢𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘭 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘯 4 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘥𝘴?

A great way to practice writing a story is to do it quickly.

Share your story in 4 words.

𝗠𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗶𝘀: 𝗖𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲, 𝗚𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗱𝗲, 𝗪𝗮𝗱𝗲. ✍🏼 💖 💗 👢

𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘥𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘳𝘢𝘸 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝙞𝙣𝙨𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮?

𝘋𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝙥𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧 𝙥𝙝𝙧𝙖𝙨𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘨𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨?

Mine is

“If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.”undefined – 𝗕𝗿𝘂𝗰𝗲 𝗟𝗲𝗲

𝗗𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗶𝗰𝘂𝗹𝘁𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗙𝗮𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗙𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗶𝗲𝘀 - 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝟯

The last two posts have been on financial burden hurting families by bringing on self-shame AND resentment.

The second reason families break apart is because of 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮.

Just do a Google search.
Finances/$ and infidelity.
Top two causes for relationships to break/end.

𝘋𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘰𝘧 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰'𝘴 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴?

𝘋𝘪𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱,
𝘰𝘳 𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺 𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬?

It's a hard situation either way. I'm not going to say one way is right or wrong.

👉𝗜𝘁'𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗺𝘆 𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.👈

My situation is to deal with the 𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙬𝙝𝙮 the infidelity occurs. That's what I'm going to speak to.

𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘧𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘦 𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘳𝘥 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘵?

The reasons I've heard about why one party committed the infidelity generally stems down to one important factor: they felt that they no longer belonged to a family AND they wanted to experience what they were missing in their current relationship.

If I had to boil it down to one word, it would be: 𝙞𝙨𝙤𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣. 😖

The families that experience infidelity is more often than not due to the entire family unit practicing resentment or one or more parties begin isolating themselves from each other until someone says, it doesn't matter if I do this or not, and I want to experience what I think I deserve.

𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘴𝘰𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘰𝘳 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘸?

𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘷𝘦𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘰𝘳 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮?

If you want your family to heal from distancing you need to do TWO TYPES of activities.

1) You need to recognize and react to the distancing behavior.
2) You need to plan activities together with your whole family to get emotionally unified, mentally unified, and spiritually unified.

Recognize means 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘰𝘳 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨. Whether it's you isolating yourself from your family OR one or more family members isolating themselves from you.

React means 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘬 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 and ask yourself, "𝘞𝘩𝘺 𝘢𝘮 𝘐 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘮𝘺 𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺?" You must be honest with yourself.

OR, you spark a conversation with your family member(s) and ask, "𝘏𝘦𝘺, 𝘐 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘮 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘦. 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘨𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨? 𝘐𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘐 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘥𝘰 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱?"

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Finally, once you have *together* recognized and reacted in a helpful, healing way; you need to plan your future together by planning together activities...together...

🤲🤲🤲 >>Virtual Hug