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08/22/2024

The silent treatment is toxic, it can be used to manipulate people and when it is it's called Stonewalling. Stonewalling is emotional abuse and leaves you feeling defeated, tired, and depressed. Candi and Tenneile discuss the difference between needing space and being stonewalled. Listen today on YouTube:

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08/15/2024

Love Bombing | Do They Really Love You? | Why Don’t They Love Me Anymore? | Is it a Honeymoon phase?

The beginning of a new relationship can be exciting and thrilling! However, some people and lovers have motives intended to control you and keep you stuck in a toxic cycle with them. While receiving endless affection, attention, flattery, gifts and compliments can be elating and even appreciated, there are some signs to watch out for to determine if these are authentic, or a ploy to gain control over you using very manipulative tactics, that may keep you stuck and eventually erode your own personality, individuality and even worse, your reality.

Trauma Bond Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F1KiiZWW0D0

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08/14/2024

What are some things that could potentially be blocking your manifestations from becoming a reality? Here are a few and how to deal with them!

Manifestation can take time and often we have things that will prevent us from reaching our manifestations successfully. Fear of previous failures and delaye...

08/14/2024

Codependency can bring up emotions such as anger and resentment due to not receiving what we think we deserve and want. Here are some things we do to release those emotions so they don't stay stagnant in your body!

Being a codependent can bring up emotions of anger and resentment for not receiving the love and validation expected and hoped for. You have to release those...

08/14/2024

Health is about a lifestyle! It's not temporary! It's not about a particular diet! It's not a short term goal. It's a lifestyle change that you maintain!

Dieting is not health. And health is not dieting. It's about creating a lifestyle!

08/14/2024

PASSION is the key to manifesting! TRULY! Our emotions drive us. What are you emotional and passionate about? Being aware is key!

Passion is the key to manifesting! What excites you? What drives you and brings a lot of emotion and passion to you? These are going to be the keys to manife...

08/14/2024

STOP teaching our young ones that if someone is mean to you then it means they like you! We lower our expectations of how to be loved and treated at a very young age!

If he's mean to you, it means he likes you, right? WRONG! No matter how cute he is, if he's mean to you, leave.

08/14/2024

Enjoy the journey! That's what it's all about! The rest will follow!

Enjoy the present moment and journey. It also helps take the focus off the future and end result, which will only hinder your manifestation goals.

08/08/2024

Gaslighting: What is it? | Do you feel Crazy? | Is your Relationship causing health issues?

How do you know if you’re being gaslit by someone you trust and love? Gaslighting can cause misinterpretations and distortions in your reality, your thoughts, your feelings, and even your memory. So how can you tell if you’re being gaslit as opposed to simply expressing your feelings, concerns and needs? How can you tell if you’re being gaslit and it’s not your memory failing you? How do you determine if you’re overly emotional, sensitive and needy? Maybe your concerns, needs and feelings are perfectly normal but the person gaslighting you is making you believe that something might be wrong with you.

Candi and Tenneile share some tactics used by people who use gaslighting as a way to manipulate and control those close to them. They share the reasons why it happens and how to handle these kinds of situations, and ultimately how to protect yourself from these abusive situations.

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08/01/2024

Just accept the compliment! Or are you afraid someone will think you're conceited if you do?

Have you ever realized that so many of us have a difficult time accepting compliments? Someone offers a compliment about how we look, the effort and work we put into something, how smart we are, etc and we usually downplay it. We downplay it by offering a compliment in return, making an excuse of why it’s not so well deserved or maybe even because we simply don’t want us or our efforts to be noticed.

Let’s take a dive into why it’s hard to easily accept a compliment. Does it stem from trauma in the past, such as a compliment being used against you or a backhanded compliment that never feels good? Is it because you think you are worthy or deserving? Perhaps you simply don’t want others to view you as conceited for accepting something. After all, we are taught to be humble, not acknowledge our own successes.

Don’t forget how you make the giver of the compliment feel when you downplay or dismiss it. It’s a gift. It’s our job to receive and accept. Besides, if you’re working on manifesting the life of your dreams, you HAVE to show the Universe that you are willing to receive good things that come your way! RECEIVE!

Share below your experiences and if you also find it difficult to accept compliments.

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07/25/2024

Have you questioned yourself if maybe you're the problem? Do you often feel you "made them a narcissist"? Are you being honest with yourself and what you have done that might cause trauma/issues/problem? Are you being gaslit or are you just open to possibilities. It is all confusing and to grow we need to look at the hard questions... Is it possible I'm the narcissist??

Tenneile and Candi will dive into what to look for, how to heal and how to learn once and for all if you're the problem (or just some of the problem).

Listen on Youtube: https://youtu.be/L0cu-UyfsKY
OR Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tenneile-candice/episodes/Am-I-the-Narcissist--OR-are-we-being-gaslit-to-believe-were-the-problem-e2mdolf

07/18/2024

Do you feel like you’ve found your soulmate? Do you also feel like the person you love the most has hurt you the most? Do you get anxiety knowing if you upset your person that you may be ignored, dismissed or gaslit into thinking what you’re doing is wrong and unacceptable or that they are doing nothing wrong and are not hurtful towards you?

Some of us can find ourselves in these relationships that make us feel like we have found the connection of a lifetime; we have finally found our person! We find someone who says and does things that have never been said or done and make us feel immensely special. Until they don’t.

Trauma Bonds can make it nearly impossible to leave a relationship but few understand what it really is, why it is so dangerous and why it makes it so hard to accept that it is time to end a toxic, unhealthy relationship. It becomes a physiological addiction within our body, every cell craving the loving bond we thought we had in the beginning.

Tenneile and Candi break down what it is, how to identify it, how it affects you and most of all, how to escape and recover from it.

Mortified: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=1&v=n-dqxg2moyo&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fmail.google.com%2F&embeds_referring_origin=https%3A%2F%2Fmail.google.com&source_ve_path=Mjg2NjY

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