08/10/2025
๐๐ฆ๐ต๐ฒ๐น๐ณ-๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ต๐ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ ๐
Each Saturday, we share a book that we canโt help but talk aboutโstories that have stuck with us and reflect the heart of our schoolโs mission.
This week: ๐๐ ๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐ฐ๐๐ง๐๐จ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ง ๐๐จ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ฌ by Caela Carter.
Shortly after being diagnosed with ADHD, I picked up this bookโand it hit home in ways I wasnโt expecting. Itโs an honest, compassionate look at the inner world of a neurodivergent child navigating school, friendship, and family. Gwendolyn knows she's smart and capable, but everything feels just out of reach. Someone is always upset with her, even when sheโs trying her best.
This is a powerful read for parentsโespecially those looking to open up conversations with their kids about diagnoses, labels, or the feeling of being different. It gently shows how kids can start to believe they are the problem, when in reality, the world just wasnโt designed with them in mind.
It also speaks to the struggle of caregivers trying to support their child while juggling advice from โexpertsโ that often contradicts what they know to be true.
I saw myself in Gwendolynโand I know many of my students would too.
๐คShantell
08/05/2025
๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ช๐ฒโ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ, ๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ช๐ฒโ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ถ๐น๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด
At Beyond Ordinary Pathways, each of us carries personal storiesโboth as students and as educatorsโthat shape our vision for what school could be. These stories arenโt about blaming teachers or schools; theyโre about recognizing that even with dedicated educators, the system often leaves kids, teachers, and parents behind.
Today, Helen is sharing one of her experiencesโnot to criticize, but to open the conversation about why ๐ง๐๐๐ข๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐ช๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ ๐ข๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐จ.
๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ช๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐๐๐ฃ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ as a paraprofessional for the district and was placed at a large elementary school. If you donโt know what a para is, my job is to assist students by implementing the strategies outlined in their IEPs. There are sometimes no resources or training programs for paraprofessionals, that was my case. The most direction I received was, โThis child needs help in math. Make sure they get the work done.โ In other words: compliance.
No training. No professional development.
I would walk into classrooms and kids would point at the student I was assigned to. There was no sense of dignity, no confidentiality. I quickly realized the social divide that the students I worked with were facing.
This story is about a second graderโweโll call her Sadie. She had long, beautiful black hair in a new hairdo every single day. She wore lots of pink and loved everything to do with makeup, nails, and ponies. She was fierce and knew exactly what she liked and didnโt like. Sadie was also a dual language learner, and Spanish was her first language.
I was assigned to help her in math. She had undiagnosed ADHD and struggled to follow the teacherโs instructions during lessons. The classroom followed a common structure called โI do. We do. You do.โ In this classroom, that meant students were expected to sit at their desks, follow along with the teacher as she worked through the front side of a worksheet, and then complete the back side independently.
After a few days in the classroom, I started to notice some things.
Instructional time meant the teacher stood at the front of the class filling out the worksheet on the board. Students were expected to copy her work. That part alone took up most of the math block, leaving very little time for kids to work through the problems on their own. Multiple students were falling behind and losing focus.
And Sadie wanted nothing to do with me. She avoided me to no end. Refusing work at all costs.
I began helping other students in the classroom, and the teacher quickly reprimanded me for โabandoningโ Sadie. But the truth was, Sadie wanted so badly to fit in. Having an unfamiliar adult sit next to her during class made her shut down. I wanted to build a relationship with the entire class that way she didnโt feel singled out.
I couldnโt move around the roomโI was expected to stay by her sideโbut she was embarrassed and refused to engage with me.
So, my solution was to do math work with her in the hallway.
And she was a completely different student out thereโoutgoing, bubbly, kind. I was somewhat pleased with the result: she was learning. But she was also isolated. Her peers were still in the classroomโmany of them still strugglingโand she was missing out on being part of the group. Pulling her out created an unnecessary divide between her and her peers.
There are ways to solve this issue. Why not incorporate more movement into the classroomโfor both students and teachers? Instead of requiring students to stay seated at their desks the entire time, why not allow them to get their wiggles out while working? The teacher could move around the room while instructing, which would help build connection with each student and keep them more engaged.
Why not encourage co-teachers or support staff to divide and conquer when assisting all students? That way, no child feels singled outโor worse, left out entirely.
What about collaborative learning? Small groups? Partner activities? These simple changes can make a huge difference. Sadieโs confidence was so low, she would give up halfway through any assignment. She wanted to make friends in class, to feel like she belonged. If she had felt like part of a community, I truly believe she wouldโve been more motivated to learn alongside her peers.
Sharing stories like this is important because it shines a light on a deeper issue: school systems are often built to serve only one kind of student. The rest are left to struggle throughโor worse, slip through the cracks entirely.
08/04/2025
Come visit us at the final Kids on the Plaza!
Don't miss the final Kids on the Plaza of the summer!! We're wapping up this nine-week series with a whole bunch of FREE kids-activities and fun in the sun! โ๏ธ
Downtown's favorite emcee DJ Brandon from will be hosting games, competitions, and an awesome dance party for the little ones.
We'll have free art activities hosted by Kris Grauvogl and is bringing their Scoop Bus! Alysse from will be painting faces, our friends at will be giving away goodies plus we have tons of greats vendors lined up with free activities for the kiddos including , , , , , Community Preschool, , , and The Little Gym.
Join us from 12:00-2:00pm in The Foundry Plaza, in Downtown Loveland. The splash pad will be on and is bringing their activity trailer! Don't forget to stop by for a kid-friendly sack lunch for $6! This lunch includes a sandwich, fruit, kids drink and a fresh baked cookie!
Thanks to our incredible One Sweet Summer event sponsors that made this series possible: , , , & our official beverage sponsor ๐๐๐
08/03/2025
๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฅ๐-๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ ๐๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐๐ฒ ๐
Each Saturday, we share literature that speaks deeply to who we are and what we value as a school.
This one is for the grown-upsโeducators, caregivers, and anyone who wants to raise readers who love to read.
This weekโs pick: ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ ๐ช๐ต๐ถ๐๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฟ by Donalyn Miller.
This book is a powerful reminder of what reading can beโjoyful, meaningful, and woven into the rhythm of daily life. Itโs about creating a reading culture, not just a reading curriculum. Miller challenges the idea that reading has to be tracked, logged, or limited. In her classroom, reading becomes the heartbeatโstolen moments of stories, real conversations about books, and space to fall in love with reading again.
For students who struggle to read, literacy instruction can start to feel like punishment. The texts are often too simple to be interesting, and the spark starts to fade. This book reminds us that while we must teach foundational reading skills explicitly (and we willโmore on that later!), we must also protect the joy of reading.
Weโll be building a school where both matter: the how and the why of reading. And The Book Whisperer is a beautiful reminder of whatโs possible when we keep the heart of reading alive.
๐ค Shantell
07/28/2025
๐๐'๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ข๐๐๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ โ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ!
Are you interested in a school that supports the whole child โ one that embraces all brains, fosters connection, and uses flexible, creative approaches to learning?
Filling out an ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ฃ๐ง๐ค๐ก๐ก isnโt a commitment โ itโs a way to say:
โญ โThis sounds like something my family might need.โ
โญ โI want to stay informed.โ
โญ โI care about new options for education.โ
These forms help us show that thereโs a real interest in our model as we work toward approval. They also ensure youโll be the first to know about next steps, events, and opportunities to give input as we grow.
Youโll be able to:
* Share input
* Join events
* Receive updates before anyone else
* Be part of something powerful from the start
Visit https://forms.gle/32omjXqzF6NFB19H6 to fill out your form.
It takes 2 minutes and makes a big impact.
Letโs build a school that goes ๐๐๐ข๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ข โ together.
07/27/2025
๐๐๐ก๐๐ฅ๐- ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ ๐๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐๐ฒ๐
๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ by Jory John was the first book I read from this wonderful series, and it quickly became a favorite in my classroom. I had so many students who connected with the seedโs storyโkids who saw parts of themselves in the idea of being labeled โbadโ and what it means to try and change.
Itโs a funny, accessible book that opens up important conversations about identity, choices, and how we grow. The illustrations are fantastic, and the message is one that sticks with kids long after the story ends.
๐ค Shantell
07/26/2025
๐ ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐น๐ผ๐ฏ ๐ฉ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐จ๐ -- ๐ฆ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐น๐น
We decided to draw ourselves as blobs and share what makes us unique as learners, so you can continue to get to know our team better!
As humans, we all have different needs as learners. Some of us need to move to focus, others need silence. Some love learning through doing, and others need time to reflect first. Weโre all differentโand thatโs something we celebrate.
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฆ๐๐ค๐๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ (๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐) ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ช๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ฌ ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ซ๐ง๐๐ซ? Weโd love to hear!
07/24/2025
When a Blob digs in their heels, itโs not defianceโitโs fear or overwhelm.
These quick strategies can turn a โnoโ into a moment of understanding and connection.
Stay calm: โI can see this feels big.โ
Avoid power struggles and pause before reacting
Offer choices within limits
Ask: โIs something feeling too hard or confusing right now?โ
Come back later to problem-solve together
07/22/2025
When behavior gets big, stay grounded.
That book-throwing moment? Itโs communication.
Instead of reacting with punishment, we respond with calm, connection, and tools for regulation.
Here are a few simple strategies you can try next time the energy in the room explodes:
Keep your body calm and voice low
Give space but stay nearby
Say: โLooks like your body has big energy right now. Want to stomp it out or squeeze something?โ
Offer a break, not a punishment
Debrief after the storm
07/21/2025
๐๐'๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ข๐๐๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ โ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ!
Are you interested in a school that supports the whole child โ one that embraces all brains, fosters connection, and uses flexible, creative approaches to learning?
Filling out an ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ฃ๐ง๐ค๐ก๐ก isnโt a commitment โ itโs a way to say:
โญ โThis sounds like something my family might need.โ
โญ โI want to stay informed.โ
โญ โI care about new options for education.โ
These forms help us show that thereโs a real interest in our model as we work toward approval. They also ensure youโll be the first to know about next steps, events, and opportunities to give input as we grow.
Youโll be able to:
* Share input
* Join events
* Receive updates before anyone else
* Be part of something powerful from the start
Visit https://forms.gle/32omjXqzF6NFB19H6 to fill out your form.
It takes 2 minutes and makes a big impact.
Letโs build a school that goes ๐๐๐ข๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ข โ together.
07/20/2025
๐๐๐ก๐๐ฅ๐- ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ ๐๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐๐ฒ๐
๐๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐๐๐ง ๐๐๐ by TJ Klune is one of my all-time favorite readsโand one of my go-to comfort books. Itโs a light, joyful story on the surface, but it gently explores deep, meaningful topics: what it means to belong, how we define family, how systems can limit us, and how we find the courage to challenge those limits.
I adore the children in the bookโthey are beautifully written, unique, and unforgettable. And the two adult characters at the heart of the story captured me completely.
This is the kind of book that reminds us of the power of acceptance, kindness, and seeing beyond labelsโvalues that feel deeply connected to the community weโre working to build at Beyond Ordinary Pathways.
If youโre looking for a read that will make you smile, make you think, and stay with you long after the last page, I canโt recommend this one enough.
Let us know what you think!
๐ค Shantell