01/10/2026
Trauma and relational rupture impacts how we act in our relationships.
Sometimes it creates protective parts that give us the illusion of connection but keep others at a safe distance away. The vulnerability is too risky.
Other times our overactive hypervigilance misses the danger right of us and we get taken advantage of … again.
And still for some the effort to please others and m keep them close causes us to determine who we are based off of their perceived opinion or love of us.
In all of these examples we are never truly known.
Our systems can heal and integrate. It is possible to do relationships differently. It doesn’t have to be this way.