08/28/2024
Phase IV: turning my office in a Pleasure Space
For those that have been following along, you know how much I adore plants and vines and everything nature. šš¼
In my last living space, my bedroom ended up being my pleasure space. I lived alone and it totally worked for me.
But now that Iām cohabiting with another, we need to make decisions together about our bedroom and other shared spaces. And the vinesā¦.my partner wasnāt super into. š
But it wasnāt an issue because we each have our own rooms now and we can decorate them however we want.
āØāØRELATIONSHIP TIP: Each of you have your own rooms so you can get some time away from one another and spend time with yourself. Itās SUPER helpfulāØāØ
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As I carefully and tediously move furniture around, staple vines into my ceiling and place moss on the bookshelves, I am reminded of my own Root Into Pleasure Immersion that Iāve held in this Facebook group twice this past year.
The free immersion takes the women of the group through creating their unique and customized self-pleasure date and one of the days is ALL about CRAFTING YOUR PLEASURE SPACE. š
Every book, every ornament, every piece of fake mossā¦
It all has its place.
This room is not just going to be my place of work, but my place of pleasure. And itās important that I feel absolutely at home, comfortable and relaxed in it š
And it takes time and energy to do this work.
The meticulous stapling of every single vine, has also reminded me of the healing journey Iāve been on for the past several years. The journey that has brought me to all of you š„°
Throughout this process, many things have not gone the way I thought they would...
šš½Iāve ran out of staples
šš½My arms have gotten tired
šš½Iāve found myself stapling in a pattern that ends up leaving open spaces and Iāve got to back thru them
All of these...obstacles, remind me of the ones Iāve faced in my healing journey of becoming sexually liberated.
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