10/16/2026
It’s funny how life gives you opportunities to face the very things you’re subconsciously afraid of and realize you can, in fact, live beyond them.
I used to need to be indispensable. I wanted to be so valuable, so needed, that replacing me wouldn’t even be a consideration. Rooted in fear, obviously, but I probably would’ve called it “being helpful” at the time. 😂
And now? What freaking freedom there is in realizing I am not that important. 😂😂
Things can happen without me. People can figure it out. I can leave something, change my mind, or take a break without needing everyone to feel my absence as proof that I mattered.
I still matter when I’m not needed. Turns out I’m allowed to just BE
